Lil help her plz will give 10 pts to and decent answer?

Question

Ok now there is this girl i like and she next to me in english we mostly talk about our work except sometimes, however i do not know what to say to her most of the time. Sometimes we conect most times we do not also how do i know really if she likes me i mean sometimes she randomly looks at me hoping i will say something or do something i think which i do not. Now is there i way i can like i know if she likes me and plz do not give me stupid advice like ask her or go for it. Another thing how do i conect with her i mean it is preety stupid just asking her like her hobbies or wat ever i mean do girls think it is weird if guys ask them that and tell me how you would like a guy to start a conversation with you and once started wat whould like to talk about

plz help

Answer 1

First off, try striking a good conversation with her. How? Easy. Tell her about something you did last weekend or something (example, say you went rollerblading with 3 friends). Tell her where you guys went and how you were doing tricks, but that you fell hard and everyone laughed (so it's funny, girls like funny). At the end you can ask her if it ever happened to her even! She'll be amused, and if she's really interested, she'll show signs of wanting to continue the conversation. Things she might do is giggle and smile a lot, tell you about a similar story, or be really impressed, and interested. That can help to really break the ice, and then ask her what she likes to do on the weekends. Ask if she likes to go shopping or hang out at the mall. Maybe she likes video games and arcades. Maybe she's sporty and goes out a lot or maybe she's big into her family. You won't know until you ask and a lot of girls love to have someone genuinely interested. GIRLS LIKE TO TALK, especially when people like to listen. =) good luck!

Answer 2

WOW!!!!!! You are long winded. If you can ask a question that takes that much verbage, I find it hard to believe you cannot just talk to this girl. Ask her how her weekend was, what she did then ask about certain areas of what she did (AKA - She went to a movie - u say " What movie? Do you like that actress / actor? what other films do you like?) and let it snow-ball from there. Striking a conversation and keeping it going is not as hard as it seems, but you have to be carefull not to sound like a stalker either. Don't be overly agressive. In the course of your questions, she will most likely ask some questions back and before you know it, you have an actual conversation going on with this girl, you get some info about her and vice-versa. After that, going by her leads (body language, tone in her voice, etc) you should be able to tell if she likes more than just a friend. Hope this helps and good luick!!!!

Answer 3

Girls dont think it is stupid if you ask what kinds of things she likes. We know that guys cant read minds, and also, if you ask questions about what we feel and the things we like, it makes us feel like you are interested. Find out some of the things that she likes to do after school and some of the bands she likes. If you have anything in common, then try talking about those things and maybe you could even do some of them together. Also, you mentioned that she sometimes looks at you like she is waiting for you to say or do something, when she does, dont just look away, smile or wink or even ask her what is on her mind. Its sounds like she really is interested in you, you just have to show her that you are interested as well.

Answer 4

ok. I'm a girl so i'll tell you what i want. if you really like her, go up to her at a decent time(at her locker, lunch, end of class) and make sure she is alone. Give her a compliment like "i saw you doodiling in class and i think your'e really good". Comment her on one of her UNIQUE CHARACTERISTICS, NOT facial features or anything like that. For example DON'T say anything like "your hair looks good today" or "you look nice in that sweater" - NO COMMENTING PHYSICAL FEATURES! the girl will think that you like her for her BODY and not for WHO SHE IS! then,she'll say "oh thanks" and then you'll say "my name is ______ by the way" (if she already knows your name, then dont tell her again) and let the conversation flow. All you have to do in class if she looks at you is smile. She'll smile back and know that you actually care. If you see her in the halls at morning, tell her "good morning". little things like that throughout the day will get her to like you more. You'll know if she likes you by the way she answers you back. If it is really quick like if you ask her how she thought the english test was and all she said was "it was preety easy" and walks away... she's not interested.However, if she says " i thought the test was easy except for part 2.. that was tricky. How do YOU think it was?" then it shows that she wants to carry out a conversation with you and wants to ATLEAST be your friend. try it. I hope i've helped.

Answer 5

well if you often catch her looking at you sounds like maybe she does like you. To talk about other things apart from work why not ask her how her weekend was, did she see this new movie thats out, does she like this particular band...that type of thing, rather than just saying straight out 'what kind of music do u like?'
hopefully you'll find something you both have in common and then just take it from there...you need to let the conversation flow, also remember its not just up to you to keep it going, she has to play her part too.

Answer 6

I think that you should not try using the cheesy, " what are your favorite hobbies" line.. I think you should find some way to talk to her out of class.. so that you can get to know her.. Maybe you can ask her if she would like to hang out after class/school somtime ? Maybe go walk around the park or mall and just chat with her about normal stuff.. let her know that you like her and would like to get to know her better.. if you just spend time together, conversations will come up naturally..

Answer 7

you probably should do this outside a class
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
first you start off with a joke

you: "may i ask you a question?"
her: says yes or ya or agrees or whatever
you "why are you so pretty?" smile
her: laughs

then you come up with another like...
"how was your day"

you jus ask her things about HER and only her
ask her kinda personal stuff if she seems okay with it (you gotta find this out within the first few seconds)

and later on in the convo
come back to the Q
you: "you never answered my question from before" :)
her: "what question?" :-\
you " why are you so beautiful" :)
her: laughs

but ask it jokingly
you dont really WANT an answer
also, you dont wanna make silence in the conversation
or else she wont like you as much
girls like guys who can carry out and support conversations
trust me


good luck man

Answer 8

well no. I mean it seems like that girl is into you. when she look s at you she is thinking " i wonder if hes thinking about me or if he likes me". I mean If I would always look at a guy i would think all that stuff yaknow. no when u ask about a girl as in her hobbies or anything she does, then she will tell her friends that she thinks you are interested in her then they are all planning a way to see if you really do like her. if u need me to explain more then IM me on madnylong. yahoo messnger

Mandy

Answer 9

Well you need to start find out her likes and dislikes. And as far as know if she likes you... Thats a touchy subject. A lot of men actually misread looks. So be careful. We hate mind games. Honestly your best bet... Would be to ask her out to a movie, or diner or something.

Answer 10

find out what her favorite groups are. Talk about them. If the group is coming to town get tickets and go together. Talk about TV shows u both may have seen, current events, eachother's lives, etc... good luck