Having danced with many a girl, I've taken a less is more approach. This can partially be attributed to my average dancing abilities. But, I really feel like if I try to do something, I'll just end up ramming into the girl. So I just stick with the beat, let the girl do her thing, and occassionally mirror what the girl is doing if its simple enough.
I've never really tried to go out and take the initiative, though. I feel kinda bad for the girl doing all the work sometimes. So ladies...would you suggest that I take the lead sometimes? Or is it too hard for a girl to pick up (after all you can't see me)? Should I just stick to what I've been doing?
Now would also be the time to supply with random tips/hints/dos/donts on dancing. Cmon ladies...
2006-10-10 15:12:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should just let the lady lead because its easier for you to follow however it may be hard the other way around.
trisha
2006-10-10 15:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It does not take much for a guy to lead. Just get in close and move a little. (If it is slow dancing) I get that when I go to clubs. I like to slow dance because you can talk to them. I love it cause just the two of us and I am center focus, they like to make me laugh.
2006-10-10 15:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Justwondering 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
come close my love and let me do my thing smile at me show its what you want and move a little to the beat then you may share my bed after we dance all night. thats not me but if that was my personality thats how id chosse
2006-10-10 15:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by a perfectly contradictory cat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, Can't help you on this one...I am a sad sad thang. I am 33 years old and I actually have never danced with a guy.
2006-10-10 15:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If what you are doing works for you then why change! some men I can't dance with but some are so smooth that they make it heavenly! That is when they are the prince!
2006-10-10 15:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, unless the guy has two left feet, I prefer him to lead. There's a romantic feel to it! ;-)
2006-10-10 15:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is going to sound terribly racist, because in a way, it is, but do what Mick Jagger did: Find a black girl to teach you how to dance.
It works.
2006-10-10 15:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
dude unless you're a really good dancer and i mean REALLY good, you probably just look gay. stick to buying the drinks
2006-10-10 15:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i loove slow dancing its soo romantic!!!
2006-10-10 15:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by cute as a button!.♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just have fun and be yourself!!!!!!!
2006-10-10 15:15:26 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋