My friend and I have both fooled around with this girl, she has told us both that she likes us both, problem being that both of us like her but also our friendship. I don't intend on ruining a friendship over a girl, but at the same time I want to have her. any opinions on this matter would be greatly appreciated.
2006-10-10 15:11:18 · 7 answers · asked by J S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you and your friend have fooled around with her, she's used trash. Just try to imagine how many people she's fooled around with that you didn't know of. Move on, find a decent girl. You know, one that won't fool around with two guys who are friends with each other.
2006-10-10 15:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a few options here. There's not really a "right" answer, either. You're going to have to decide where your priorities are.
1. Make an agreement with your friend that neither of you will pursue her until one of you has extinguished your desire for her. This would keep your friendship blossoming, but the girl will almost certainly move along. Unless she likes one of you a lot more than the other...which could destroy the friendship anyways.
2. Go after the girl. Now, you might immediately think that this is bad for your friendship. But what good friend is going to ridicule you for chasing a girl that you like? If you end up getting her, he would look bad if he complained about it. So the friendship would most likely not be destroyed. BUT there is a chance that your friend will end up with the girl (he's not going to hand her over to you if you take this route). That wouldn't feel great to be left out in the cold like that.
3. Break off your friendship for the girl. Now, you might shake your head at this. But if you aren't great friends, and you both have many other friends, maybe it would be best for everyone. There would be no sour grapes no matter what happens, and you get a shot at the girl you like. And hey, if worse comes to worse, you can make fun of the guy to help your chances with the girl now...
Just trying to hook a brotha up.
2006-10-10 15:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
locate out what it truly is approximately you that she will't stand (i.e. ask her). If she has a case, and you think of you may restore those issues then say so and ask her again back to confirm they're fastened. If she would not have a case then the relationship develop into no longer working and she or he would not understand you. If she would be waiting to no longer assist you comprehend, then the relationship develop into no longer working because of the fact she isn't keen to handle issues. If the relationship develop into no longer working, it nonetheless may be achieveable to repair it. The kneeling down concern would artwork, yet you will desire to locate out what it truly is you're asking forgiveness for first. you may in easy terms use this as quickly as nevertheless, if she dumps you back the two she certainly can no longer stand you or it truly is a activity which you do no longer desire to play.
2016-10-02 04:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself is a girlthat fooled around with both of you, worth it, Unless it was at the same time, Then I don't know what to say except, You all should hold a very tight relationship!!
2006-10-10 15:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
weel just talk over a freindly game of madden or something and work it out and after the game as you guys head upstaris to eat some food have him go up the stairs first and as he does so kick out his legs grab his throat and whisper in his ear shes mine now bia*** and slit his throat with some kind of razor, slowly lower his body back down staris into a waiting trash can then drive to the nerest dumpster and throw his body in .. im mean sure he's been ur best freind for years but pussy is pussy and u gotta get what u gotta get right? good luck i recomoned mcdonalds dumpsters their cleaned mostly my illegal immagrents who cant report a body or they'll be sent back to mexico so good luck :)
2006-10-10 15:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by tom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've apparently known your friend longer. Don't let her get in the way of y'alls friendship. If he wants to take the risk of breaking your friendship and taking the girl, let him. but don't be the one to do it. Let him have her. and if he does take her, stand with him anyway. Who knows She might end up thinking she likes you better after they go out. But if you think it will hurt your friend don't go out with her.
2006-10-10 15:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by jesus_freako_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing you both...it's true...girls can be cruel too! I'm sure there's a nicer one out there with a more mature way to treat people whom she supposedly 'likes'. Trust me...stick with your friend...if she'll do that to you two,... she'll do it over and over to you until you learn to have a little self-respect and tell her to go and play her games with someone else.
2006-10-10 15:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by markus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋