Does it mean anything that a really fit guy has such a strong attraction to plus-sized women?

Question

I'm really into being physically fit and get to the gym often, and have a very athletic/muscular body to show for it. As much as I'D be intolerant with having any visible fat on my body, for a few years now, I've had a really strong physical attraction to women who are plus-sized/chubby, and can't figure out why. I've always been on the thin side and never been overweight, but I keep telling myself I'm not supposed to be SO turned on by women who are, and haven't told my friends, so feedback from an objective party would be great. In summer when I see them in tight clothes (or "muffin tops") I try very, very hard not to lose my composure. For awhile now I've even been into chubby porn and messed around with a few bigger girls....but is there something wrong with me??

Answer 1

Nothing wrong with you at all. You're a chubby chaser! Enjoy it, and hey, look at the bright side, you'll have your choice of them since you sound like someone the ladies will like! Enjoy. You're just as screwed up/normal as the rest of us. We all have our "thing."

Answer 2

Nope. Nothing's wrong with you. You are just part of the real world. You are the reason why there are plus sizes women. You cannot explain it and neither do I. But we all know that each and everyone of us are made for a purpose. You are made to give hope for those women and made them believe that they are attractive on their own right. I'm sure so many out there are like you. Some are truthful enough to accept it while some are trying to hide it because of what other people might say. Just remember...you cannot define skinny if there's no pluz sizes.

Answer 3

If you are unattractive, guys won't be into you. Guys who themselves are in good shape will not find out-of-shape girls attractive. It's evolution. They want a fit girl because they are thought to give the best chance of having fit kids. It's not something they consciously think about, but it's the reason why your brain tells you to be attracted to somebody. People always TELL us to go for personality only, but you cannot go against nature. oh and if you want health advice - it's 80% diet. Eat a smoothie every morning with pasteurized liquid egg whites (you won't taste it, I promise), frozen fruit, a bit of nonfat milk, and then pour low sugar high fiber cereal on it. Eat tons and tons of vegetables and low-fat meat (such as chicken and lean beef). Also, eat lots of salmon. Avoid sugar (fruit has tons of sugar that's why I only eat it for breakfast). Carbs should only be yams/sweet potatoes, or high fiber/low sugar stuff. You could also have the breakfast smoothie twice a day, but make sure you are careful about sugar the rest of the day. Also, try putting a bit of veggies in that smoothie, you probably won't taste it.

Answer 4

People all have their particular quirks regarding what turns them on. As long as you aren't into encouraging women to become obese for your viewing pleasure, who cares? Find yourself a big, beautiful woman who you can get along with and make hot sexy love with her.

Are you really talking about "plus sized" girls or just girls a few pounds overweight? It's impossible to tell from your question but I've seen girls weighing under 130 lbs classified as "plus sized" by some guys. Either way, it doesn't matter. And the bonus is you'll be sooooooo appreciated.

Answer 5

I do not think there is anything wrong with you.. Just because you go to the gym and work out all the time does not mean you can not be attracted to someone that does not... I would say just relax and be yourself as long as no one is getting hurt does it really matter what turns you on sexually?

Answer 6

ITS called you are not SHALLOW!! like most *** holes! All it means is that you like that type of women,Theres nothing wrong with you. When I first met my husband, I was almost 272 pounds. He was blonde,green eyes, former model and stripper. Within a year I dropped over 100 pounds just to look and feel better about myself. It means you are a good guy.You know most "heavy"women are really good people and loyal and dedicated, when I know of so many "skinny" women I have met that are liars and cheaters. Not all of them in the world I know, Just some of them that I have known personally. Go for it! Who cares what your "friends" say If they were your friends they will be happy for you, no matter who youre with, espoecially if she likes them too and is ok with you hangin out with them ! It gives me hope knowing that there are good men out there!

Answer 7

Of course not. We're all wired differently. What's popular or "acceptable" has varied tremendously throughout history. Lucky girl who ever you end up with... a lot of women have serious hang ups about how they look and fear not being attractive to men. If your friends can't be happy for you then I'd say they really aren't your friends at all.

Answer 8

Their is nothing wrong with liking someone who is your opposite! I am not completely physically fit- and Im not Baby Shamu.... but I enjoy going out with guys who are very thin... as opposed to a guy with a beer belly, or guys who have a bigger arm muscle than their brain! But everyone is entitled to their own opinion! good luck... ps... PORN is PORN... no matter if its nicole richie or kirstie alley (last year)....Its all about what turns YOU on...... no rules when it comes to porn!

Answer 9

Hey, be proud! What (or who, in this case) you find attractive is uniquely you. Psychology research has shown that we humans form our attraction quotient very early in your developing years. It is hard wired into your brain, and it is as much a part of who you are as your wanting to be fit. When it comes to the birds and the bees and romance you gotta go with what comes naturally to you, not what you think you should be attracted to.

Be proud, and find yourself a lovely zaftig woman!

Answer 10

I think everyone has different tastes, but this might mean you have underlying issues with your own body image. You're not willing to cut yourself any slack, so you want to find a woman you can treat differently than you do yourself. Try and figure out what happened in your past to make you so hard on yourself and so opposite about women. Then lean back and relax coz there's lots of them out there!

Answer 11

Sounds like personal preference. My brother is the exact same way and he is very happy. Maybe these women complete you because theyre what youre not or maybe youre attracted to natural patterns of life who knows. Enjoy it, dont try to deny it =)