2006-10-10 14:49:30 · 21 answers · asked by amy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have a choice to make...either you want to or you don't. what is there to "deal" with?
2006-10-10 15:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one.. I would have some serious issues if my husband or boyfriend was asking me to participate in a threesome.
I think that if it isnt something that you are into , then you might have some problems in your relationship in the future.. For me, I would not want to be in a relationship with someone that was interested in that , but It depends on how YOU feel.
I think that the desire for him to have a threesome, is his way of saying he is not satisfied with one partner,and instead of cheating he would rather you be a part of it.. seems wrong to me still.. but again, the only way you can deal with it is to accept it , or not be with him I think
2006-10-10 21:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem with an ex boyfriend of mine.
It made me feel like I was not enough for him.
Honestly I think any guy who wants this should not be in a committed relationship. bringing someone into a relationship is asking for trouble. I would say you have far more problems because this is your husband. If you don't want to do it he should respect that and move on enough said.
2006-10-10 21:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by freakNpink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he have someone in mind? if not just say ok . i have been trying to have a threesome for 10 years and it still hasnt happened. so dont worry its hard to find a gal that would even consider it so your pretty safe.
2006-10-10 21:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by askmike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to agree with sinfully sweet. She may have been a little abrupt but what it is, is what it is.
I think that the major issue is: Has he been persist ant about trying to get you to agree or was this just a spoken fantasy?
If he is badgering you to go for the gusto, Sinfully Sweet gets my vote. If it was just a one what-if thing, sweetly explain how wonderful he is and that you greedily want him all to yourself. Stroke his ego, and maybe something else if it goes that far.
2006-10-10 22:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by deepndswamps 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not like his idea about wanting a threesome, try explaining why you don't want to have it.
2006-10-10 21:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have it and ask him if he would have one with two men. If he wants you to lick, he should be open enough to suck. Threesomes are great, both ways.
2006-10-12 20:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by Houston Golf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want a threesome? Contact me if you do.
2006-10-10 22:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he ever done it before? my bf and I were caught up in the moment with two of my female friends, after a lot of drinking, and he couldnt do it. Some guys think they want it but when it comes down to it, they dont want to lose their girl to someone who can please them just as much, if not more than they can. Maybe with someone random, but not someone they love.
2006-10-10 21:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by sarah p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a yes or no thing. Simple as that. You do or you don't. Answer him and get past it. If he gives you slack stick to your guns. And whatever you do, don't listen to Sinfully Sweet up there.
2006-10-10 21:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by rere 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he want to have a man in for your pleasure? Tell him turnabout is fair play and see how he sits on that!
2006-10-10 21:52:57 · answer #11 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋