My boyfriend and i have been dating for seven months up until the school semester started we were having a great relationship. I love him I really do but lately "i have been doing everything wrong" he gets mad for the smallest things for example today we were talking and he called me an idiot "playing around" so i turned away (i do this alot he knows im playing around also) so anyways there i am waiting for him to come hug me and say he was just playing around but instead he walks away and he ignored me for the rest of the day i tried talking to him between periods but he turned and walked away from me 4 times and he hasnt called me. He has been doing this alot lately (ignoring me) my friends say what am i waiting for i should brake up with him they say that its what he wants but i think that is too extreme i love him too much to do that but i need help so that i can fix our relationship because im afraid that it might come down to me having to brake up with him or him with me!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-10 14:44:06 · 13 answers · asked by lily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i cant brake up with him i know he loves me and i know i love him but i want to do something that will make him understand that i hurt inside everytime he does this i ve told him and its not getting through to him i need ways to make him understand all that
2006-10-10 14:57:24 · update #1
it sounds like your boyfriend is very immature.You have to talk to him and find out why he was been treating you bad. If he won't talk to you then you should dump him cause he is playing games with you.I think hes trying to tell you that he want to break up but doesnt want to hurt you. Good Luck
2006-10-10 14:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by sweetlittlemama2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is a one that likes to joke around with me. I get offended even if I know he's joking. I have had to except the fact that's his way. Have you tried talking with him about how he's acting? Ask him what's going on, tell him how you feel. If he cares anything about you he'd talk to you and work it out. Maybe it's not you he has a problem with, maybe it's something else and he needs to vent and doesn't want to vent on you. Maybe he needs some space and time to think about his life, where it's going and how he feels about the relationship. You won't know till you talk to him. If nothing else your young enough not to let one guy stand in the way of moving on with your life. Find someone else.
2006-10-10 21:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by robbie347 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon you should try and talk to him if he wont listen then you break up with him, i have been in this situation before when i was in high school but you know what your always better then him all girls always are... and there is probably someone else out there that will come and hug you, and really care for you. but try talking to him first....you only live once!
2006-10-10 21:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is important. Stop playing games and acting like things dont bother you when they do and vice-versa. You're both sending mixed signals to each other and you need to get on the same page again.
2006-10-10 21:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by sarah p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, Sweetie, but it sounds like he's wanting out of the relationship. You need to make him talk about how he's really feeling so you can move on & find someone else.
2006-10-10 21:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should have a talk with him let him know how you love him then ask him how he feels about you and ask him whats wrong why is he been like that then you2 have to work this out it maybe something he thing he herd i hope this works out for you good luck to the both of you
2006-10-10 22:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up with him, try and talk to him and ask why he is ignoring you, If he dosen't want to talk to you ever then he probobly wants to break up with you. So, just wait a while and see what unfolds later.
2006-10-10 21:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by rsagnst95 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that he wants out and wants you to do the braking up.
Hold your head up high and leave him alone. Let him come to you.
You deserve better.
2006-10-10 21:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kathy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him first - it looks like that is what is going to happen to you sooner or later... do not let him dump you... if you look around on the streets, in the school, library, bookstore, restaurant - there is sooooo many of them out there wanting to meet Ms. Perfect.... and one of them out there maybe waiting for you and treat you like a princess
2006-10-10 21:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by b.s. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friends are right. It sounds to me like he's trying to drop you a hint. Maybe you should take it.
2006-10-10 21:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by Marianne K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋