was with for 3 months.
2006-10-10 14:36:12 · 8 answers · asked by loca 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
If you broke up after 3 months; it wasn't meant to be.
If you found someone else recently after the breakup, clearly you weren't into him.
My advise would be, get comfortable with yourself before you get into any type of serious relationship.
2006-10-10 14:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Altruist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you found someone else did you do it just for spite, out of rebound or did you actually find someone who you care about? If you care about this person I see no reason for you to go back to an old boyfriend who broke up with you to begin with...Why subject yourself to rejection again?
If this new relationship makes you happy stick with it and tell your ex-boyfriend that it's too late...he had his chance and he blew it.
If you don't feel like you are in this new relationship for the right reasons and you feel like you want to try again with your ex then that's up to you but chances are it won't work out, especially since he broke up with you after such a short period of time....
Good luck!
2006-10-10 14:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the guy you got. You were dumped and that sux but you found someone good, and now the dumb @ss who broke up with you wants you back! Kick his dumb @ss to the curb and stick with the guy you got! Just because he made the mistake of breaking up with you in the first place doesn't mean that you made a mistake when you moved on.
2006-10-10 14:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by Gabi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally? I would break up with the "current" boyfriend, and leave both of them alone untill you've had awhile to determine "why" you found it necessary to "be" with another boy "that" soon after the other boy dumped you.
It's not healthy to be needy, and it gives guys the wrong impression. Give yourself a break, and just be free for a while, it feels great!
2006-10-10 16:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you still like him. However, you need ask yourself what your intent is on getting back with him and if he's going to hurt you again. You also need to consider the feelings of your current boyfriend, who I think you shouldn't even be with since you're still thinking about your ex.
2006-10-10 15:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by TrainerMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move on. If it didn't work the first time, it won't work the second time.
2006-10-10 14:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on why he broke up with you, do you love thisother person, why does he suddenly want you back???
2006-10-10 14:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by LV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on why he broke up with you, whether or not you have kids with him, whther or not he will leave you, and really who was the messed up one in the situation. I mean if he dumped you because you were treating him badly and he was being nice, that's different then him treating you badly and breaking up.
2006-10-10 14:57:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Basketnutz! 2 · 0⤊ 7⤋