My b/f moved out and said he just wanted to date for a while untill he could get some financial stuff straightened out. I have cried almost nonstop since then. I know it sounds crazy but I miss him so much. He says he loves me and it will all work out. He tells me to stop doubting because I am doubting him. I see him every day at work and it is soooo hard. What should I do?
2006-10-10 14:22:58 · 24 answers · asked by froggie47469 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No he was not supporting me. It is my house, and I paid most of the bills, he has child support,truck payments,loan payments, and insurance to pay , therefore was not able to help me out mich with the bills.
2006-10-10 14:40:24 · update #1
give him credit. wants to get money matters sorted out. that is a real man. if you love someone, set it free, if it comes back it is yours, if not it never was.
2006-10-10 14:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by mamma bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time to adjust to the separation, and for you to get over the shock of it all. I know your heart is aching now, but in due time it will dull down a bit, and that's when the reality of the lame reason he used to distanced himself from you will set in.
Little white lies, or Big white lies will hurt less than telling the truth, and I think (sorry to say this) he gave you a few to set his selfish butt free. Time, will unfold the true answers, but it will be harder for you to move on and think clearer when you have to see him at work everyday, that's a tough one. Easier said than done, you need to keep busy now, take up some new and interesting hobbies that will get you out of the house and meet new people, maybe even take an educational class at a local community college. Anything to keep from dwelling on him. Keep eating healthy and keep a good frame of mind as much as possible. Also, try to avoid him as much as possible at work, if you can. Let him wonder about you, and realize what a strong women you can be. Best of Luck to ya.
2006-10-10 21:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill....
Move on and try to meet other people-make new friends, pick up a new hobby, ect.
Don't dwell on the fact that you miss your b/f so much. It'll just put you in more pain that you don't have to go through.
Yeah, it hurts but if you never move on you'll waste so much time in your life and could really miss out on some great things.
2006-10-10 21:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can only end when you realize that there are plenty of men in this world that are willing to treat you the way you want to be treated. What is the "it will work itself out" suppose to mean? Life does not end just because a relationship does ok?
2006-10-10 21:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend lacks the courage to tell you he wants to move on without you and by stringing you along is only prolonging,your pain while he is out enjoying himself.Get a backbone and some self respect and dump the clown,you will do better on your own.If he has financial stuff to straighten out ,how can he afford to date? Lose the creep
2006-10-10 21:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by Samuel B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you still feel that much love for him, seeing him at work definitely isn't helping matters. Have you considered getting another job, because seeing him everyday is sure not going to help the healing process. Good Luck!
2006-10-10 21:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he moved out then it's his problem. Don't be killing yourself for what's his falt. So if it is his problem act like it doesn't matter and try not to hurt yourself trying to get over what your BF is doing. Look on the good side of things. Try and think of how much better it is without him. Just don't kill yourself girl! You can do it.
2006-10-10 21:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're still with him then whats the problem? theres nothing to "heal" if ur still together! you're still with him- he just needed to get a few things straight that will probally benifit you someday anyways. if you love him so much then have faith that it will work out and quit doubting him. just take it step by step. let him know that u r with him 100% no matter what.
2006-10-10 21:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life.
If it is meant to be (as ordained by God; b/c if God is not a part of your relationships, your relationships will fall apart).
The pain will go away and you will see things differently, but as long as you keep holding onto the memories you will only hurt yourself while he goes merriliy on his way...
2006-10-10 21:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he moved out to do what? isn't he spending more $$ now? or was he supporting you? find yourself a new boy (but if you cry all the time no one will want you)... only then it will stop hurting
2006-10-10 21:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by b.s. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋