I have been dating a girl for about 3 months and lately when i spend time with her it just doesn't seem like she likes me as much as she used to. What could i do to see if she still likes me alot without asking her?
2006-10-10 14:03:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well how serious is your relationship at this point? if you want to be together for long(even get married, i dunno) you need to be able to LOVE each other, not just like each other when you are doing something fun and unexpected. you should do those things to make things fresh, but if you're, say, just sitting at home and the first minute you sit down on the couch with an old T-shirt on she acts like its weird or she doesn't like seeing you that way-then nothing you do can save your relationship. all the couples counseling or YAHOO answers in the world cannot make you more love. excuse the geeky science reference, but love is like engergy-it can neither be created or destroyed. you've already got love-and its all around you-but if its real love, it won't fade or go away. you WILL break up eventually. fighting is natural-its your love that keeps you together... but if she gets rude to you the second the excitement wears down, it was NEVER really love-you're not right for each other and chances are she DOESN'T DESERVE YOU. geesh, why do guys only go out with these annoying little sluts that don't really care about them anyway? tell all your friends-newsflash-pretty, quiet girls make better girlfriends-even tho guys don't like us- b/c we're not bitches and will respect you more and if you tell us we are beautiful, we won't get snotty and think you are lucky to be with us-we know that we're lucky to have you. geesh.
2006-10-10 14:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by aerie anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask her what's wrong. maybe there is nothing wrong with how she feels about you but something else could be wrong. just be like "are you okay?" and if she says "yeah, why" tell her that she just seemed a little distant to you and you wanted to make sure she was alright and that you're always there for her
it shows you care about her and you have concern for her
2006-10-10 21:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by letsx3dance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to spend more time with her
2006-10-10 21:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Miley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're probably just in a rut, get her some flowers or take her somewhere unexpected.
2006-10-10 21:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to have a serious talk with her!!!!
2006-10-10 21:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋