A guy I have been dating says he loves me but chooses to take and date me and every other woman but calls me non stop a day
2006-10-10 13:53:59 · 15 answers · asked by Jammie J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he may be afraid of his feelings, it sounds like you may be the one but he may be nervous about his attraction and don't know how to deal with his feelings for you. Don't let yourself be used or played, but, don't give up just yet if his dating habits don't really bother you and you are willing to give it some more time, when you are ready to make the move tell him to stop fooling around with other chicks, you don't want to be one of many, you want to just be one...he may come around soon and if he doesn't, find someone who will put you first and ONLY.
2006-10-10 13:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy plays games because you let him do so.
Just say NO to him. You have set yourself up as an easy target for this guy. If no one better is around he has you on a leash.
Let this be a lesson to you about men. Don't accept a man in your life if he isn't what you want and need.
2006-10-10 13:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-08 12:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't play games- we master them. Games are ways for men to feel like they have some control. Because, and only because, we know once we take the trip down the isle- it's pretty much all work and no play. Kind of like, come get it while its hot...you know.
May the best man win!
2006-10-10 13:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He dnt love you he love what you do for him what ever that is but he can only do what you allow him to do he call you non stop to see where you at so you cant catch him with his other woman not cause he care
2006-10-10 13:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Lil Mama 1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Coz games are fun. If u dun like the game den dun play it same reason y i dun play cricket!
2006-10-10 13:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by KaTooooooooooM 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just like some girls play games, only some guys play games. I think you should break up with him.......
2006-10-10 13:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by minoru 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Because some guys play have hard hearts and don't think about your feelings!!!
2006-10-10 13:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by angelslight 0 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if he dates other woman dump him girl it ain't worth it but if you wanna stay with him tell him to dump the others. think
2006-10-10 13:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because games are a lot of fun.
Don't hate the playa, hate the game.
2006-10-10 13:55:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋