Finding out the first time really hurt, the second is such a shock because I believed him when he said that he wouldn't do it again. So much for his being an "honest", "truthful" man, huh? Worst part is finding out the site and reading his profile where he's lying about not being in a relationship, and seeing that all these other women are being taken in by his charm
2006-10-10 13:49:20 · 19 answers · asked by Brenda W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is really horrible!!! Leave his *** he did it 2x. Not like looking at porn actully trying to meet women. My hubby would of been gone the 1st time
2006-10-10 13:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by R C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but the truth really hurts. He's just not the man for you. Let him find someone else on the site...he does not deserve you. I would make a clean break and leave him. You want to be with a man who wants you and only you. You deserve a man that would never think about searching for someone else while he is with you because you are all he can thing about all day.
2006-10-10 20:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've learned your lesson.
Shame on him if he fools you once, shame on you if he fools you twice.
This man doesn't respect you and has no sincerity or regard for your wishes. It's time to move on. Obviously, he feels as if he isn't satisfied in the relationship with you and that is why he is talking with women on the internet and lying about being in a relationship.
Honestly, you shouldn't be with a man you can't trust and since he's lied twice already and broken a promise of not doing again, you won't be able to trust him.
Let him go and wish him good luck with his little internet dating because he's just going to meet a bunch of flukes and fakes, 500 pound women and such.
Don't allow yourself to be in a relationship with him anymore.
2006-10-10 20:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best part is: you caught him and you can be glad you found out now. Someone else might fall for his trash, and luckily it won't be you. YEAH!!!
(PS I once saw an ex on a website acting so wonderful and pulling in the women. I tried to warn them but he would just say I was insane- and they believed him. Whatever! Just be glad you're free)
2006-10-10 20:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like its time for a good bye kiss and then kick him out of your life. He isn't worth your time and effort. He is a liar and a cheat. You will be so much better off without him.
2006-10-10 20:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a free license for you to do the same. Enjoy being young and go out and have fun. If not that, then smash his computer to bits and pieces and kick him in the balls.
2006-10-10 20:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first time shame on him, second time shame on you. Why did you give him the opportunity to do it again, he should have been to the curb after the first, Oh yeah Love is blind
2006-10-10 20:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him!!! not worth it.. looking for someone on lnline dating is not a crime but posting your profile and lying about your status pretty bad... just dump him.. take the initiative ... dont allow him to make you feel degraded and not enough for him.. you will discover that you got a lot to give and geel very much appreciated by someone who really cares..
2006-10-10 20:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by ARELY G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to leave this guy. You shouldn't trust him anymore. Seems like he doesn't really care whether or not you trust him. You deserve a better guy who value your trust and respect.
2006-10-10 20:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by weniki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you're wondering what? Why are you still with this liar and cheat? He is doing it because he knows you're dumb enough to believe him when he tells you he'll stop, and he knows you "LOVE" him even though he doesn't give sh*t about you.
2006-10-10 20:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋