Really nervous to see the guy I like tomorow because I haven't seen him sicne Friday. I have to tell him thanks for beign there for me and for teaching me that all guys are not mean. I am really afraid. Any words of advice to make me not nervous? thanks in advance.
2006-10-10 13:47:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's fine that you're nervous. You're only nervous because you're not really sure of yourself in the situation you're discribing to me. I'm a guy, I've been so nervous with some girls I couldn't even look at them when I noticed them. Other girls, I could right out of the blue strike a conversation with. It's okay to be nervous and afraid to show someone how you feel or even to express gratitude. I would probably have a harder time with something like that than you would. I just have to say the only way to do this is to forget you even like him in the manner that you do. Talk to him like you would talk to your dad. I know this because I didn't grow up with a dad of my own. Instead, my grandpa took his place. I can tell me grandpa anything in the world and he would listen and respond in a way he saught to be right. If I know one thing, a teen-age girl usually talks to her dad more about anything than anybody else. Even more than her best friend. If you can't picture yourself talking to him as if you was talking to your own dad, talk to your dad for real. Ask him for advice. I really hope that if you don't have a dad around enough to talk to that you find someone you can trust just as much if not close to as much. I just wish the internet would be the absolute last place people would come for help. This is not the best way to get help. Instead, try talking to your school counselor, a teacher whome you trust, your best friend, a parent, a family member. Maybe even your boss at work or any other adult you know well and are close to. Please, use the internet as a last resourt, only. I only wish you would try talking to you family, friends, or teaching staff about this before anything else is done.
2006-10-10 13:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is chill if you have gotten this far in a relationship you will know what to do because it will come to u and any way if he is always there for u he will listen tomorrow even if you a nervous he might be 2
2006-10-10 20:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzplayer92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank him for everything and don't forget to make eye contact while doing so. And hey, be yourself. Everything will be cool
2006-10-10 20:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by cosmoboyin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does that make you nervous?
2006-10-10 20:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and tell everything you want to say to him.
2006-10-10 20:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by Hime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're really sweet, and thanks for being there.
2006-10-10 20:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋