An ex of mine has always wanted a baby but never wanted to get married. Well, now she's pregnant (she doesn't know who the father is, and no it's not mine. we broke up two years ago) and is asking me for money. What I'd like to know is should I tell her to meet some place and stand her up or should I make her have sex with me before I pretend to give her the money (I won't actually give it to her, wel maybe half upfront and then renege on the deal)? Which do you think is colder? She was a bitcht to me when we were together. I've been waiting for this moment for two years.
2006-10-10 13:27:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like the two of you should get back together.
What's "colder" is that you have been hanging on for two years waiting for something bad to happen to another person so that you can feel good about it.
Get some professional counseling, grow up, get a life, and move on.
2006-10-10 13:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're making a mistake. By seeking revenge, you're showing you've been thinking of her all this time... that she really got to you, and still is. The very fact that she's asking you for money shows that she still believes she has a hook in you, and she does.
The better answer, the one that maintains your own self-respect, and shows her clearly that you have closure, is just "no". No explaination, no rationale... just "no". It shows you are not interested in her, or her troubles. That no part of your heart or mind are still focused on her. It tells her that she has been left behind. It doesn't show that you are angry, or bitter, it just shows you're done with her.
Trust me, for her to feel that she is irrelevant would be much worse than any other fate you could dish out.
2006-10-10 13:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all, you don't know for SURE that the fights were from "abuse on her behalf". It takes two to fight, and if he wasn't fighting back at all it would've gotten PRETTY boring and she probably would've stopped all of her "abuse". Second of all, you don't know if he has slept with his daughter or not so let's not assume you know whether he has or not. Third of all, he has put HIMSELF in the hospital by ENABLING this woman to damage him the way she has. He is in charge of his OWN mental state. If he wants to play "poor me" then he can (he obviously has been for a while), but he's a dad and he needs to grow up - it's past time. If he is going to relinquish rights and she's so "abusive" then he obviously doesn't care about the child. That's really sad. He should've been a little smarter and not gotten her pregnant. He did it not only once, but twice. That's pure stupidity. Why would you think he should relinquish rights to both kids if this mother is so abusive? You obviously aren't a parent and if you are, you couldn't possibly be a good one.. wanting a "good person" (as you describe him) to give up rights to a baby to a woman who is "abusive". Sad, sad, sad!
2016-03-18 07:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind a person are you? she's in trouble, tell her to get money from the guy that knocked her up. To do do domething nasty just to jump her bones is sick.
2006-10-10 13:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give her a dime she slept around that kid is not your problem if all you want is a lay dont use her to get it leave her to fend for her self thats the best thing you can do cuz if she doesnt even know who the dad is i bet she is contracted something thats just not where you want to go
2006-10-10 13:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by Catie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "No"
2006-10-10 13:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by SCHSFAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need help
2006-10-10 13:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by stephaniewilliams414 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋