im 15 years old and have a lil trouble in haveing confidence around cute or pretty girls and am too scared to go up to ne of them. so i just wanted to know if there is a way that i can get my confidence up so that i wont have ne trouble just going up to girls?
2006-10-10 13:25:34 · 6 answers · asked by cool boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would just start talking to them... i have tha same problem with guys... i 'm afraid that the guy will tell me to go away or something...
2006-10-10 13:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by afinney1819 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand your feelings. It's quite natural by the way. Most guys go through what your going through.
Here is the secret. It may not seem special at first, but after you try it you will be amazed. First, you cannot get every girl, even if you really like her. There is no magic trick to get any girl. Second. Confidence comes with practice. Not clever words, gimmicks or any of that other nonsense.
Give yourself a goal that you must be rejected by at least say 1 girl for the first week, 3 girls for the second week and 5 girls each week after that for at least 6 months. That right I said rejected.
Don't approach girls when they are in a bunch and feel the need to look cute in front of their friends. Ask them something easy like can I call you afterschool or attend some even that you know they like.
When you get shot down, which you will, say to yourself, So what, their loss, and try again and again and again.
You will have so many girlfriends you will be tired of them.
2006-10-10 13:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make's yourself perfectly normal at 15, going out with groups just as friends is a good start so muster up all your mates & ask some girls if they would like to go have some fun say 10 pin bowls, its cheap & lots of fun with no pressure.
Wolves hunt in packs, but I hunt alone.
2006-10-10 13:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by Mosez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "Creative Visualization" by Shakti Gawain. Very powerful techniques are given to solve all relationship problems. Also "The Magic of Believing" by Claude M Bristol.
2006-10-10 13:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by prad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm like that too. i'm 18 and that i've got approximately 3 guy pals and no female pals.. Kinda the alternative? yet each and every each and every now and then it particularly bothers me that no women like me. I only want a superb buddy to click with, or somebody to hold close out with as a exchange of coming domicile and doing not something each and every of the time. the only element i understand to do this enables is to easily be chuffed. i hit upon happiness in such little issues and it particularly enables. I be troubled by melancholy and that i'm exceedingly shy, yet as quickly as I get to renowned somebody i'm large to be around. only carry close in there and consider out to branch out extra. Step out of your convenience zone.
2016-10-19 04:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little dude...every girl you like, try and be their friend, then after a while, ask them out. If you crash and burn, move on to the next. Trial and Error...find a girl who likes you as well, and go with it...
2006-10-10 13:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Kamikaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋