What makes a girl say "That's the best sex I've ever had". I'm not talking about longevity or size... I'm talking about the sex itself.
2006-10-10 13:17:40 · 15 answers · asked by Big E 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The times that I have been complemented on making love are the times when I have paid particular attention to her needs rather than my own. Everybody knows how ease it is for man to get excited and be satisfied, but generally it is much harder for a woman.
Kiss the parts that she loves to be nibbled on, neck, ears, arms, stomach, belly button, thighs, small of the back. I let her know I am smelling her too. Breathing in around the perfumed areas so she can feel the wind rush past her skin.
I work from neck downwards and will also massage, manipulate with my hands and or body.
My hands are the best workers and I use light breathes out over her body so that she gets shivers and feels me all over.
Stimulate the lips of the vagina and surrounds with fingers and or tongue b4 any penetration. Wait until it is wetter than wet b4 going in with the finger/tongue to the clitoris and the insides. I have long fingers that really do the business internally and I find that I can flick the cervix and it makes my partner shudder. I prefer to enter with hands pointing downwards because there are more areas to stimulate that way esp the g-spot.
After this stimulation I'm generally totally turned on anyway and follenter with the penis. I would still use my fingers and would change my hands to massage erogenous parts of the body and also kiss and caress the areas too.
Change the postition frequently, but always be tender, with the occasional full thrusts to add a bit of spice.
It's not about the size or how long u last, it's about the care and attention to detail and whether you show that you are in love!!!
2006-10-10 13:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, sometimes a guy can do everything right from a technical point of view, and it can feel very forced and sterile, like he's working from a sex manual or a porno movie or something.
The best sex I've had is when the guy is sweet, enthusiastic, passionate, affectionate, playful, creative, sensitive and most of all, really into me and into the lovemaking.
It's corny I know, but there's just no substitute for being madly in love with each other and madly in lust as well.
2006-10-10 14:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a nice guy seduces a girl he really likes very slowly and a step at a time and only if she is comfortable with what he is doing. Getting physical is done in a private place, with no interruptions and someplace that is reasonably comfortable (not in the front seat of the car). Kissing and hugging will be following stroking on your legs, back, hair. Going further would include clothing be opened, unfastened and/or removed and a lot more touch, rubbing and kissing. If you are at this stage then yes he is seducing you.
2016-03-28 04:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are really comfortable with the guy, he really arouses you, gentleness, he knows how to find the right spot and deep is not always the spot, neither is oral sex it all the time, and he has the right moves. most guys are stiff in bed, but if takes his time along with the above, then he's alright in my book.
2006-10-10 13:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by shaglemongirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence and I don't mean over-confidence. But most importantly being very into the girl. I love it when he acts like he really loves being with me. Believe me size doesn't matter.
2006-10-10 13:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy that is not just out to get his.A real man will satisfy a woman in all ways before he gets his.
2006-10-10 13:20:49 · answer #6 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it requires communication, during sex, saying things that will cause her to respond, not dirty talk just relating to what she wants, etc..Best of luck..
2006-10-10 13:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the guy gives the girl alot more pleasure then any other guy. LOL just as long as you know how to use it
2006-10-10 13:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a guys knows how to use his hands and mouth on your fave spots.
2006-10-10 13:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when it feels so good that you dont really remember where you are and what you should grab next, you are getting close.
2006-10-10 13:32:25 · answer #10 · answered by dhwtaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋