If you have known someone for a while, and are out on a date and are having a great time, is it off-limits to talk about doing something again in the future?
2006-10-10 12:52:29 · 27 answers · asked by very confused male 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't really pick a best answer on this one, they are all good. Thanks!
2006-10-11 05:51:25 · update #1
Keep it light and funny.
That's the best advice.
2006-10-10 12:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the date is going very well, then do ask them out for a second date. Of course the best thing to do on a first date is to cut it off when things are going it's best. That way it makes her want to go out with you more. Don't just cut it off abruptly. Just find a good excuse like you have to get up early the next morning for work and such.
2006-10-10 20:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
If the other person is totally freaked out by being with you, then yeah it's probably off-limits.
If you're having fun and talking about different stuff and they say something like "that sounds like so much fun", then you say something like "yeah, want to try it some time?", etc, etc. then it's definitely not off-limits.
Bottom line: if you're both having a good time, just drop the hint that you're having a good time and would like to do something again. You don't have to book it right then. Just drop the hint.
2006-10-10 20:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - how else are you to indicate that you'd like to see this person again, and find out if s/he feels the same? Bring up something you would enjoy and think s/he might enjoy and see what kind of reaction you get. If, for example, you say, "I know it seems like a little kid thing, but I love miniature golf," and s/he says, "so do I - it's golf without the pressure," then you're safe to follow it up with, "why don't we get together and play?" If the response is negative to the event but not to you, you can try something else. Nothing wrong with letting someone know that you enjoy his/her company and want to enjoy it again. Good luck!
2006-10-10 20:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better if you do not talk about the future unless you know it is something 4 sdure that he is interested in you. But don;t sound needy. That is a huhe turn off. Most likely act natural and feel free to flirt in a cute way 4 girls. If ur a female, let the male talk about the futere.
2006-10-10 20:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't. I've done that lots of times. It's a great indirect way of letting the other person you like them. It also tests the waters to see if they like you too. What you want to look for is sincerity in their response. When they say they would like to out again do they seem to really mean it or are they just trying not to hurt your feelings.
Another thing is, you don't want to say lets get together again and then never call and set it up. I've done that too, and later found out I really hurt some feelings.
2006-10-10 20:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by thechristianviewpoint 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all off limits. But, judge the way the date went first. If you feel it went well, you should definitely ask to do something in the future. If it didn't go well, you wouldn't want to.
2006-10-10 20:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. By bringing up ideas for another date in the future, you are finding out if you both will enjoy doing the same things together. It also tells the other person that you really are interested.
2006-10-10 20:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by Christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first it depends on if you want to do it in the future. if you r talking about a date go for it. and if the person thinks your weird for it you are with the wrong person. or you could just take it slow and let them make the first move
2006-10-10 20:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by pjpilar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! Why would it be? Since you two have known each other for awhile, it's okay to be yourself and to plan again and again for other dates.
2006-10-10 20:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by forest_without_sounds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not totally off limits...but try to bring it up later in the date
2006-10-10 20:12:31 · answer #11 · answered by Dusty P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋