Why do girls only like guys who treat them like crap?

Question

In my experience, at least, being nice to a girl gets you nowhere and they all like the guys who treat them like crap

Answer 1

i dont know, but its a bunch of bs that girls like it of tolerate it. i didnt like it thats why i dumped my ex b/f

Answer 2

Are you from Backwardsland? Here in Forwardsland girls like guys who treat them nice instead of being treated like crap.

Answer 3

Well now that is not entirely true. I personally love a man that treats me with respect. Now the girls you have previously been with are probably going through a phase. I went through it too, I don't know why we go through it but we do. All I can tell you is that they will eventually realize that the guys that treat them like crap are going to be like that forever. So eventually they will miss those good old nice guys like yourself!

Answer 4

Ok let me be honest here....I dont like guys who treat girls like crap. I was there b4 and when things got out of hand i left. Right now I am in a relationship with a really caring and outgoing guy. He doesnt get mad at me or anything and to be honest, I wouldnt want another guy who treats me like crap.

Answer 5

you know, i was asking my self the same question, and i havn't figured it out yet. See, i find men that are extremly nice, sweet and romantic, at first..... long enough for them to make their way in , and then it suddenly changes, all the sudden they do a 360 in to an asshole. my dad always told me, do the 6 month test, once the newness wears off, then you meet the real person they are.
As for why they like men that treat them like crap, i don't think we like them, but once we got'em, we don't know how to get rid of them, could you help me on that one? lol

Answer 6

ok not all girls like guys who treat them like crap. but some girls do go for those kinda guys, sad but true. im guessing that they just like the bad boy image. i dont know. i like nice guys that r really sweet but with an edge. i dont like guys that treat me like crap. if they do then its just a waste of time.

Answer 7

Part of the roles. Their role is "nest builder". Man's role is "hunter/gatherer".

Wimps suck at hunting. So, to get a good hunter meant going after the high testosterone, slooped brow, low-IQ "athlete". More exciting also.

The last thing most women want is the guy that's an easy catch. They want what's hard/difficult to get.

So, play hard to get, treat them like you don't care if they come or go...

Answer 8

I personally like guys who treat me good...but I do know what your talking about, for some strange reason most girls like guys who are awful to them. From what i've seen it's just because they are "popular" or "good looking" but those guys always seem to get older and beat their wives

Answer 9

yeah you're right about that. But the only answer I can think of is that girls are just plain stupid for thinking that they can change a man. That goes for guys too, that think just because your skank of a woman will stop cheating on you. Love can change people, but when the person that needs the "change feels no love, then dont expect any change.

Answer 10

becasue human beings have this thing about challenge...its always nice to have challenge..like say ppl always go for someone they know they cant have and the person they can have they dont want..its fun to have a challenge i guess...grls who like guys that treats them like crap sometimes think that they can change that person and thats another challenge

Answer 11

whoah.....i hate a guy who treats me like crap! We all deserve respect and i make sure i get some and give him some.......Good Luck anyway!