how can i speed things up with this girl. She knows i like her, her friends know it. She said im cute but she wants to get to know me. Her friends say she's shy and i am to thats way they think its a good match. But i don't really know what she wants. I don't want to seem to pushy but i want to speed things up and see what happens what should i do.
2006-10-10 12:45:24 · 9 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did you ever consider she might be shy?
2006-10-10 13:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by firedragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant really speed things up while trying to get to know each other. All of this will take time and if you give it time then good things will happen. When you find out more about each other then you can really determan whether you are a good match or not. Cause if you like somethings but she dont like those things and you two start going out and you start talking about that certain thing then thats really gonna screw everything up. You want to find someone that likes the same things that you do cause then you will get along so much better. Basicly, do what she is wanting to do and get to know her more...if things dont work out and u like completely different things then you can always be friends but a good relationship is with two ppl liking the same things pretty much.
2006-10-10 19:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by Deathkiss911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think personally that you should get her some flowers and maybe some candy, show her that your a sweet heart. Her friends and your friends know that you two would make a good match. If that does not work try giving her a kiss on the check, and if she gives one back then that'll help you speed things along.
2006-10-10 19:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by latinbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I wouldn't rush anything. That's especially bad in a relationship. I'm not saying to take it slow, but rather just take it easy. Moments will come naturally and when they do you'll be able to appreciate them more when it's unexpected.
Plus, if you rush it she might think that you just want to get in her pants as quick as possible.
2006-10-10 19:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont speed things up. That will push her away. Thats the worse thing you can do. Bro, wait it out. Dont be so desperate, If whatever your looking happens, it happens, if it doesent it doesent. Thats how you get women.
2006-10-10 19:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by mermer7@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to go too fast, but try to talk to her and see what she likes so you will know if you have a few things in common. if she is not trying to get to know you like you're trying to know her then im sorry to say it, but she might not like you the way you would want her to.just keep trying.
good luck!!!!!
2006-10-10 19:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by pinknewyorkapple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its simple man if she likes you then just give her some time and eventually she will know you enough. jus make sure she aint trying to use ya for back up man
2006-10-10 19:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DON'T want to seem pushy?
But that's exactly what you're being.
2006-10-10 19:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush a good thing
2006-10-10 19:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by NIKKI K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋