I am 18yr old female I have lived with my stepdad since i was 16 when my mom and my stepdad got divorced. I have a brother that went to live with our real dad. well anyway my brother shared a big bedroom with a partition. When he left I could no longer sleep I was just not use to being alone in the room, so one night i asked stepdad if i could sleep with him, he was hesitant but said ok. Well it became a thing that i would sleep with him couple times a week, after about 3 months i stoped sleeping in my room and slept with him everynight until a month before i turned 18. Nothing besides waking up few times cuddle up and either his hand or my hand in private areas ever happened. We both slept in shorts and tee, This was the hard part for me since i was use to sleeping nude or just panties, I did sleep in just tee sometimes but I tried not to that too much. Just wanted to know if anyone else out there ever do this?
2006-10-10 12:43:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I guess at this moment in time, as you're 18 and as it's your step-dad who's now divorced your mother, technically he's no longer a relative. So my guess would be that it's probably OK.
I'm not saying it's right, but you are effectively two unrelated adults.
2006-10-11 03:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by glawster2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger I use to sleep in the bed with my father. We even use to take naps together. As long as there is no inappropriate touching there is nothing wrong with this at all. He's your dad! I do hope that you do not do this any more. It is something that I grew out of. It stopped at about the of 13.
I grew up with 4 other sisters and we always slept together. So if we were not sleeping with one of our parents we were sleeping with each other....
2006-10-10 19:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I've NEVER slept with either of my parents and I won't allow my children to either.
You are way to old to be sleeping with you step dad. You could get him into all kinds of trouble if the wrong people found out. It isn't healthy! If you are having problems, you need to talk to a therapist honey!!
2006-10-10 19:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This has to be a joke! If not you are asking for rape or eventually sex with an old man who is your stepdad.
Your stepdad coud be arrested for this. Tell us your adderss and names and one of us here will call child protection or the cops in your area.
Get back to your own bed. Sleep in pj's and lock your door.
2006-10-10 20:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not past the age of 10.
2006-10-10 20:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I slept with both my parents until I was 9... but not after that...
Why do you keep asking these odd questions? Don't you know whether you and your step-dad are innocent or not?
2006-10-10 19:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by DidoDeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For what it's worth, in a lot of asian cultures it's pretty common. My ex, her whole family and everyone she knew, even well into their late teens it was common to shower with dad. It seems different to us americans because we aren't familiar with it. But, innocence is still innocence.
2006-10-10 19:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by TonerLow69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um no, that is just gross. I have never once slept in the same bed as a relative.
2006-10-10 19:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmmmmmmmmmm NOOOOOOOOO NEVER.
2006-10-10 19:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats wrong!!1No dont sleep with your step-dad....NO
2006-10-10 19:47:44 · answer #10 · answered by SunniGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋