I like this guy and i've liked him for 2 years. I have been talking to him and trying to figure out how he feels about me. It hurts everytime he gets a new girlfriend. Should i just forget about me or something else? Please help me.
2006-10-10 12:32:56 · 17 answers · asked by Sammi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget about HIM. oops. srry bout the typo!!!! :D
2006-10-10 12:39:30 · update #1
he's not the "drop one girl, get another" type a guy! he's really cool and a really sweet guy. BTW, i'm 13 so no dating site links please!!!!
2006-10-10 12:42:36 · update #2
i'm worried that if i tell him how i feel he'll never talk to me again and i don't want that.
2006-10-10 12:44:18 · update #3
he likes me, it's just he doesn't want to admit it to his friends because they pretty much hate me!!!!
2006-10-10 12:49:34 · update #4
be starightforward and ask him where he stands. it's gonna hurt whether you pull the band-aid off slowly or quickly. you know where this is going.
2006-10-10 12:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by The Indigo Cobra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks, I think its time to be honest with this guy and let him know how you feel. If he says he only want to be friends then you'll have to accept that and move. It's easier said than done but staying around has only a friend will continue to be hurt like the past two years. There are to many guys out there for you to focus on a lost cause move on and find some else. Be brave and tell him how you feel.
2006-10-10 12:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriends don't matter. If he doesn't have a ring on his finger, he's fair game. Walk up to him, grab his shirt with both hands and say, "I want to go out with you. Even if it's only once." That's the first scenario.
The second scenario is a couple of my friends (both young adults). She asked him if he wanted to do something, but he had to fix his car. Later, she asked him if he wanted to go for a bike ride---but his bike had a flat. Then she asked him if he wanted to go for a walk. "You do have shoes, don't you?" They are now happily married.
Third scenario: drive a cute cheerleader home from work every night. When you're fifty, dream of her and wonder what might have been.
Take the chance. It's better to know now than to wake up at 50 and wonder what might have been.
2006-10-10 14:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can do as long as he is with someone no matter how long that relationship is HOWEVER, you said "everytime" he gets a new girlfriend and if his relationships are that brief then maybe you should consider staying off that list otherwise if this is the man you just have to be with, write a letter and hold onto it until he hits one of his dry spells and then send it to him. Either way goodluck!
2006-10-10 12:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. You should be up front with him and tell him how you feel. Maybe he feels the same way and just dont know how too tell you. Guys will turn from a Friend if they dont know how that Friend feels about them. So just be honest and ask him how he Honestly feels toward you
2006-10-10 12:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just forget about him and move on. If he really liked you he would have asked you out and not other girls, but if you really want to know how he feels just ask. I know it seems hard but its better to know then to be wondering all the time how he feels!!!
2006-10-10 12:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless this guy is a physic, he honestly will have no idea how you feel. Just casually ask him to go out one night and then when you do, talk to him about.
2006-10-10 12:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about you? That's an interesting approach.
2006-10-10 12:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if he keeps getting a new girlfriend, you should nmo better to try not to like him, he obviously dosnt care for you, happened to me, he had a few girlfriends..just forget bout him
2006-10-10 12:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by FredDIEMerCURyLOVer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends make better lovers because they understand each other... he may also want to be with u but is hesitant to cross the friendship barrier ... ques ..does he kno that u like him .....talk t him n let him kno that u like him and watch the smile on his face ...then he will stop searching too ....
2006-10-10 13:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋