I'm 18 and my gf is 16. And she and I live very far about 2000kms. I met her on mobile dating dated Aug 10th, 2005. She's Christian and I'm Hindu. She and I have chatted everyday and every moment. I love her so much and she also. But one day, I told her I want her as life partner and want to love as BELOVED then she told me that FORGET it. I asked her, "Dont u love me"? She told me she loves but she dont want to against parents. And she told me she loves me as BEST friend. And I asked her that you love another? She told me she doesnt coz she has me so she doesnt need anyone.
When I get absent for little bit time then she gets tensed and worry abt me,"she told".
Her talking style is very romantic.
Now let me know wht should I do?
How should I tell her I love her so much and want to marry.
2006-10-10 12:31:25 · 12 answers · asked by Pushpendra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
First of all, you need to wait until you're both legal adults.
Second, you need to wait until you can both support yourselves, pay taxes, pay insurance, make house payments/rent, pay bills, buy groceries, etc.
Third, if she's already been so strong in her words against you, you need to accept the fact that she just doesn't feel the same way about you that you do about her. You either need to just be her best friend or stay away from her altogether.
2006-10-10 12:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not take any offense when I ask this, have you actually met her in person, b/c judging by the info you have posted it sounds like you have not met her in person. On the other hand if I were in your shoes I would be extremely careful b/c she is still a minor, that is unless where you live has marriage with parental consent that has the age of 16 as the guideline for it. Just take your time with this one, you can tell her how you truly feel about her
2006-10-10 13:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by Joe P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking at it from the perspective of a 16 year old girl I personnally would freak out if my boyfriend said he wanted to marry me. I personally see it as I have 2 years of highschool left and then at least 4 years of college. A family is something i eventually want but to think about it now terrifies me.
2006-10-10 12:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by irish_red_hed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys are way toooo young to get marry. Besides is really hard to tell if you are gonna like each other we you guy are face to face. Love and marriage is more than saying i love you. So think twice and by the way she is legally underage; stay away or at least wait until she is 18 to mess with her don't get yourself in jail. Good luck anyways!
2006-10-11 12:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till shes 18. Before then, dont do nothing that could get you arrested. And I dont think you can get into trouble for saying I love you, marry me' to a 16 yearold.
2006-10-10 13:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....you may love her but she is playing games w/ oyu she told you that she doesnt wabt to go against her parents an she loves you as a best friend but yet she cant live with out you....i know you might not want to here this but you need to tell her how you feel an that its not right for her to say thoes things an then go back an say something diff. you need to ask her weather or not she wants to be with you an then ask her to marry you if she says no then you need to relize she is a tipical teenage girl she wants to playgames she doesnt want to be serious good advice for you from me.....forget about her belive me your better off with someone else.....o an she aint really christian because if she was then she WOULD NOT be on a moblie dateing service i no that for sure....hope you do whats right for you an you open your eyes to how she really is...bye bye
2006-10-10 13:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by none of your biz. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is too young to get married! Until she is 18, she would have to have parental permission. Most girls think getting married while still in high school is crazy. Ease off. If it's meant to be, it will still be meant to be after she's gotten the chance to graduate from high school and get out on her own for awhile in college.
2006-10-10 17:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her then wait till she is ready and her parents agree that she can. you want to make the parents happy if you want to marry her. if you marry her without parent approval then her parents will try to break u and her up every chance you get. im serious! and what are you thinking asking her to marry you at 16. wait!
2006-10-10 12:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by ♥sweethearrt♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're so young, you don't even know what love is. Plus she's underage, don't get yourself in trouble. One day you'll understand how idiotic this whole conversation is.
2006-10-10 13:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I got to say is fo ahead and go for it but before that you she meet her.
2006-10-10 12:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋