I really think my boyfriend is cheating or trying to cheat on me. Ive known him almost a year now. And he has never given me his phone number he has mine and calls me at least once a day unless he gets "busy" and cant which rarely happens. But he is always talking to these other girls and when we are together i still catch him checking out other chicks. It gets on my nerves and i told him this and his response was "well I'm only a guy". But lately things havent seemed the same to me. Like he used to not care who had left him messages on his voicemail or on his myspace while he was with me but lately he like has to check it all the time. So i really think that there is another chick. Cuz for the past few days he has even made the statement well no one else would talk to me so i figured id call you. Kinda makes me feel like i must be the last person he calls anyway. I mean the whole deal about him not giving me his number kinda bugs me anyway cuz all those other chicks have his number.
2006-10-10 11:55:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has never given you his phone number, I would suspect that YOU are the other woman, and he is cheating on his girlfriend, wife, lover, etc with you.
2006-10-10 11:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by just browsin 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have a hard time believing that this type of scenario can really exist.
You have seriously been dating a guy for a year and you don't have his phone number? I agree with what the other poster said, I think that YOU are the other woman and you don't even know it. You should get some self esteem girlfriend, and find a better man! Besides not giving you his phone number, he sounds like a real classless creep! Checking out other girls and taking their phone calls while you are right there? ugh! No class!
2006-10-10 19:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by Dragonfly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Crystal..I have found that usually a female gut feelings on things like this are right...almost always..so he probably is cheating on you..In fact, it sounds like he may be married and cheating with you and also other women on his wife.
The fact you are dating a year and he has not given you a phone number is the tip off there. Usually only men with a woman to hide do that. he probably laughs that he is getting away with it.
I definitely think he has been lying all along and the sooner you get rid of him, the sooner you can heal and try to find a man who have no problem giving you his number and who doesn;'t act suspicious and look at other girls even though he knows it bothers you.
Trust your instincts..women (and men) usually are right when they think the other is cheating..good luck!
2006-10-10 18:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
SWEETY BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!! You should atleast respect yourself and break up with him. don't let him disrespect you like that. If he hasn't giving you his number it's because somethign is going on. and you've been with him for a year??? that's bull. it's disrespectful that he's checking out other girls in front of you, and those girls probably think bad about you. It's not worth it. just break up with him. it will take a while to get over him, but in time it will happen. and to answer ur question, you shouldn't even ask urself is he cheating, IT'S OBVIOUS!! and if he's not then he's disrespectful to you, do u like being disrespected??? because if you do then go ahead stay with him.
2006-10-10 19:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup hes starting the cheating process,you have 3 options:
1. leave
2. confront him and if he doesnt change, leave
3. act the same way he is and see what happens
2006-10-10 18:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by starfish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to answer ur question he is cheating on u. has he ever tried to push u to have sex ? cuz if he is he just wants some girl to do it with him which is kinda gross.i say dump him. just let go cuz later on hes gonna find out that he lost a wonderful girl.
2006-10-10 19:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would get out now you sound like a smart girl , belive me that 'im just a guy' excuse is a load of crap there are men out there who can think with their brain and not whats between their legs trust me i have one ..lucky i know ...and not giving you his number...it sounds like trouble to me find your self someone who can give you all the attention and phone numbers you deserve ! good luck
2006-10-10 19:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by maria s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave him and find some one who will love you for real. he has not given you his number? wow! ya tell him you just dont feel the love any more and tell him to keep his s h i t you dont want him no more. you are worth more then a player momma so get one that will love you and wont be checken ather girls out. good luck
2006-10-10 19:03:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Face facts honey, if he is or trying to it is your fault. This may be your last chance, if you have put on a few pounds lose them and tone up, work out and shape up, are you giving him what he wants sexually? If so why is he looking around, try pleasing HIM prolonged oral, anal, BDSM, dress to impress, how about suggesting outdoor fun, dogging (look it up!) or even water sports or swinging. Keep it exciting or this will be the pattern of your whole life xx
2006-10-10 18:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
To be quite honest, if you think he is cheating then he probably is. Its time to put this relationship to rest and go find someone else who is more reliable.
2006-10-10 18:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋