i told this girl i loved her.......?

Question

i had sent her this

(Her name)
I need to tell you something. And this is really hard for me to say. But you need to know..

I know your going out with that guy. And I hope you 2 are doing really great. But, I need to tell you this. I love you with all my heart. And it hurts me to know that you 2 are going outt. But before you do anything or say anything. I want you to know that I’m always here for you. If you 2 aren’t doing soo good. I’m always here for you. Cause I love you. And I want the best for you. And if your happy then I’m happy. And my shoulders always free for you to cry on. If you need it. I love you.

(my name)


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now

its been 2 days since i sent it
i dunno how often she checks her email n stuff, but she's on like everyday
how long should i wait before i ask her if she got/read it ?

and is it good or no ?

thanks alot for your answers everyone

Answer 1

Never ever ask if she got the email. If you're very lucky, she'll pretend she didn't read it. If she says anything, tell her your little sister sent that to a bunch of people in your contacts list as a joke and you're very sorry for leaving your email open. What the hell is wrong with you?! This is exactly why men shouldn't express their feelings. Have some self-control dude, she's with somebody else. Why are you trying to snake that guys girl? I hope he finds out and kicks your ***!

And next time you have something important to say, why not text message? Seriously, email? Grow a pair and tell her out loud, or don't say anything and move on. Email is a weak way out.

Answer 2

That's a really sweet letter.
If she's on almost everyday..she probably read it.

I wish I had that kind of confidence to email the guy I love a letter like that.

But I know exactly what you're talking about..and I'm sure it hurts alot..but it's all meant to be. And if you two are meant to be together..it will happen, and nothing or no one can change that.
Hope everything works out for the best!!

Oh..and maybe wait another day or two to ask her.
=)

Answer 3

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Answer 4

If she doesn't respond, then let it go. It may be that she's uncomfortable with this fact. Or it could be that she doesn't know how to respond yet. You told her, so you should feel better. You also said that if she was happy you were happy. The way to have avoided this would have been to tell her in person. The easiest way for her to deal with this knowledge is to just move on like she didn't read it so that you two can continue to be friends.

Answer 5

Thats a really sweet letter, the only thing I would have taken out was "And it hurts me to know that you 2 are going outt" But ask her if she got it. Then go from there. Good luck

Answer 6

Um, it is a bit strong. Love is something that comes from being with a person, not seeing them across the room. Love grows deep over time spent together. What if she leaves that guy to spend time with you and then you don't like her anymore. If it was me you were sending that to, I would probably freak! Way too much to live up to! And, how creepy to think that someone feels that way. She probably hasn't responded to you because she is afraid of what to say or do. I would just back away quickly and not bring it up again unless she does. You have made your stand, just let it be. If she wants to leave her bf for you, she will and you will know.

Answer 7

I WOULDN'T ASK HER ABOUT IT RIGHT AWAY. SHE MAY NEED SOME TIME TO PROCESS IT. I AM NOT SURE IT WAS THE BEST THING TO SEND IT. IF SHE WAS SINGLE WELL THEN THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN FINE BUT SHE IS TAKEN FOR NOW AND U SHOULDN'T GET INVOLVED IN THERE RELATIONSHIP EVEN AS HER SHOULDER TO CRY ON. I THINK U SHOULD NOT WASTE YOUR TIME WAITING FOR HER YOU COULD BE MISSING OUT ON A LOT. IF ONE DAY U ARE BOTH FREE GO FOR IT TILL THEN GET OUT AND ENJOY LIFE.

Answer 8

so you did not have the guts to talk to her, and decided to send her an email (which she will share with all her friends) and probably have a good laugh. Then the big one, she may show it to her boyfriend so I hope you are well embodied (as in capable of protecting your butt from being kicked).
Why didn't you ask for advise on yahoo answers BEFORE you sent the email???

Answer 9

that is a really good letter, but you should wait just a couple more days. although she is going out with somebody already, she probably feels pressured to do something because she feels responsable for your feelings, get it? anywho, if this girl goes to your school, try to make eye contact or something, or you could even ask her yourself. but dont rush into it, wait just a couple more days. good luck! =)

Answer 10

I would ask her today.She sounds like she has alot going on in her life but , it is no excuse to hurt other people.So step up and straight up ask her!Who knows it might be good or it might not.But if it isnt she isnt the last one out there even if thats what you think right now.