over this summer i've thought about this one guy alot. then this fall i realized that i really like him. what should i do? pleez help.plus we are supposedly dating and he won't even talk to me!
2006-10-10 11:40:34 · 12 answers · asked by *rebel gurl* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of him. You can't date someone and not talk to them. If he doesn't like you, don't worry about him. Find you someone who will like you and would not mind talking on your dates.
2006-10-10 11:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, try this:
WITHOUT ROMANCE IN MIND... (that is very important)... go up to him and ask him about cars, music or sports, whatever you notice he likes, like you really want to know why some cars' brakes have holes or something.
That will prompt a conversation.
Conversation is the best thing for what you want, let him get to know you better and you do the same. Have many of these conversations. If he doesn't want to talk to you EVEN after you've tried this a few times, then honey: it's HIS LOSS.
If he IS the guy for you, he will read what you want him to read in your eyes, (I mean love) You don't need to say anything, just try to be yourself.
If he isn't the guy for you, you will definitely know it with a few conversations, believe me, some guys are NOT what they seem to be.
Most important, be YOURSELF. NO PRETENDING. If he isn't talking to you right now, he doesn't know what he's missing.
=) Good luck!
2006-10-10 18:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Killash's Brain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he either doesnt like you, doesnt want to commit, or he doesnt even know whats going on (he is a guy ya know haha). I say just to give him space. he'll eventually come around and talk to you about how he feels and if he doesnt then he need some balls so just move on to someone better
2006-10-10 18:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there r several choices for u
1. let it go. forget about him
2. keep on being in his side
3. ask him directly
4. just act usually
if i were u, i would act usually, like nothing happened
2006-10-10 18:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should move on because you dont need to waste your time with someone who doesnt even talk to you
2006-10-10 18:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by Betty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are dating? and you arnt talking?...maybe you guys arnt ment for each other. summer flings never last too long anywho. good luck. - i agree with heather
2006-10-10 18:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by Slevin Kelevra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt like you there is nothing you can do but just go up to him and talk to him and let him know you are there. : )
2006-10-10 18:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up. Seriously. What's the point if he doesn't like you back?
2006-10-10 18:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to be his best friend and help him when ever he need you the sure he well be different ..... try to be his every thing
2006-10-10 18:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by louy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel about it.Honesty is always the answer!And ask him how he feels about it.And go from there!
2006-10-10 18:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by Affy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋