I'm Ten and made this to ask a question. I am in the 4th grade and there is a lot of presior about having a boy friend. But I know a boyfriend wont last till I can marry but I would still like one. So should I wait to share my love with that 1 or is it the same the first 2 or 3 times?
2006-10-10 11:33:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have no idea what a boyfriend is! Too much work darlin'. How about have guy friends that one day when they are older and really know what a girlfriend needs and wants and you are old enough you can date them then. Don't be pressured into such a silly thing. Hang out with your girl friends and do girl stuff, those boys will still be there later. I promise. Boys are really big nerds at 10 anyway. :)
2006-10-10 11:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Baby girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety there's a difference between boy friend and a fiance. a boy friend is going out with someone that you like and you get to know them every day more and more, there is also kissing involved but not unless you guys don't feel like it (for ur age) you shouldn't think about love yet, you're too young for love. you can make a boyfriend last until you and him agree to be together. Later when you become older you can marry him. but a bf does not have to be someone you will later on marry. I have had.............well let me not say cause then i'll be a bad influence. so if you don't want a boy friend don't get one, besides it's not something you get. My first boy friend was when I was 17yrs old. Just wait until you have feelings for some one and that person also feels the same about you. until concentrate on beinga young smart girl. Just study, and have fun while you can, because as you get older life becomes harder.
2006-10-10 11:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right, a boyfriend won't last until you can marry. That is why if you decide to have a boyfriend, make sure you don't let him do anything like touch, or kiss you . You want to be a good girl until you find someone that will last forever. Don't let other kids pressure you into doing anything that you aren't comfortable with. At this time of your life, you should be concentrating on doing good at school, and keeping your room clean at home.
AND REMEMBER: BE GOOD
2006-10-10 11:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, I'm a 7th grader and I've still never had a boyfriend (i know, how could you resist this face? no, I'm kidding) which I'm actually ok with, but most of the time I'm always hoping for one, but the reason that I'm ok with it is because I haven't met anyone yet, except for this one person that I basically blew my chances with because I never told him how i felt. so my point is, if you get the opportunity, don't make the same mistake I made, but maybe wait until you find someone awesome so that your first boyfriend won't last 2 days
2006-10-10 11:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with a girlfriend first and see if you like that. If not, then try both together, then move on to two boyfriends at once. After that, you can settle on one guy,make a few films and get a coke habit and life will be complete. If you are really ten, disregard all of the answers here and do YOUR HOMEWORK !!! I doubt you are ten however.
2006-10-10 11:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about a boyfriend OR marrying. Just have fun. It's 4th grade for goodness sake!
2006-10-10 11:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How approximately as a replace of writing on their person papers, you have a opposition for each individual to attempt to make the best finding assignments and the guy who wins on the top of the year gets an computerized A on a try (which you additionally could make up so it would not impact the curriculum yet they won't understand that). Incentive ;)
2016-11-27 20:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a boyfriend. You have to try out different people before you find the right one to marry. Most people date about 10 people before they get married. Ask your parents for help, because they may not even want you to date.
2006-10-10 11:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by dumpsterdd90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you're way too young to be thinking about boyfriends. Just ignore the pressure (while learning to spell it) and have fun with your girls. I'm 16 and that what I'm doing. I've gotten along fine without a boyfriend.
2006-10-10 13:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think boys shouldnt be ur major problem. You have ur whole life to worry bout those things. About the other kids ignore them. Dont do things just because u think everyone else is. be yourself. Those things will come to you when ur really ready for them
2006-10-10 11:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋