My BFis in 6th and I am in 7th. We started going out 3 days ago. He always writes me notes and some of them are soooo cute but some are just kinda out of the blue and not really nessasary. Yesterday he sent a note asking if we ever went to the movies together would actually watch the movie or would we kiss the whole time (remember: 2nd day going out) And earlier today he aske me if I knew how to have sex. I just kind of ignored that coment but then he kept asking me. I told him that we are to young but then he said that it sounds like fun. He ussually doesn't talk like that, most of the time he is a teachers pet and goody-goody and I really like him. Should I dump him or just ignore theses types of comments? (these types of comments don't come up very often) WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!?!?!?!
2006-10-10 11:11:47 · 17 answers · asked by kitty fan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you think it is too fast then it is too fast. tell him you dont appreciate the comments he is making...that they make you uncomfortable or whatever. if he keeps on doing it even after you have told him you dont like it then dump him.
2006-10-10 11:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7th grade is young no offense...definitely DO NOT have sex. You will regret it..and if he is saying that stuff after 3 days its probably his friends egging him on but if they have that much of an influence over him you dont want that...if the comments make you uncomfortable get rid of him, you deserve better and being only in 7th grade i promise you, you will find better down the road!!
2006-10-10 11:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by RubiaBonita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ya'll have only been goin out for 3 days and he is only 12 or 13 then i think he's moving to fast but i don't think that u should break up with him unless u feel uncomfortable or if he starts pressuring u but really its ur desicion.
2006-10-10 11:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by SEXI_PRINCESSA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u guys are way to young to be talking about sex. at that age i remember it was all about geting the most from a girl. he will dump you if u dont give him what he wants. thats fine cuz yur way to you for that. its not the end of the world u have yur whole life ahead of you. kissing is ok i guess at 6th grade but if he is asking for sex already thats all he is after.
2006-10-10 11:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by dunebugger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
answer the quesitons sexily. watch urself, though. get him wanting more of you, if thats what you want. If he asks these questions, maybe hes just curious to know your opinions? Maybe hes liked you for a while now, and is thinking in his mind that everything will happen tomorow.
basically watch yourself, but act sexily lol
2006-10-10 11:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by pimpin around the world 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age these comments should not be coming up at all. He is moving way to fast even for an adult. You don't deserve this kind of disrespect.
2006-10-10 11:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by oddbutterfly1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is already asking you those questions then he wants to try it....Take it from me I have not had sex yet and i am 19 years old and all my friends who have already had sex were about your age.....dont do it til you are older and you truely love that person.....
2006-10-10 11:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by madimadimarisol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you don't appreciate those comments and that if you are going to be going out with him all this sex talk will have to stop.
btw.. it won't .. he is looking to get laid and unless you want to be that person I would just dump him now.
2006-10-10 11:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore the comments his mind hasnt reached your level otherwise he would already know that sex is good but it can be regretted
2006-10-10 11:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jakele K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ignore those comments
i believe it`s not him takling it could be his friends telling him to tell and ask you that
well Good luck and i hope you make the right choice
2006-10-10 11:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋