I feel like I'm getting nothing out of life. I've done the school thing...now doing the job thing. Pretty unsatisfied. I've ditched half my firends as well, they don't seem so "with it and cool" anymore. What comes next???
2006-10-10 11:04:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I've got a hobby. Cars/racing, and it takes just about all my free time.
I figure do the girl thing next lol
2006-10-10 11:13:32 · update #1
I traveled. Went to Australia and lived for there for 7 months, and went to SE asia for a month. It was great...but i'm not addicted to travel now like most people who go. I had a blast, but I don't see what all the fuss is about.
2006-10-11 05:27:29 · update #2
Obviously, you're missing something else in your life. It may be time to get yourself occupied and pick up a hobby or find a soul mate (if you don't have one already). Get out and do things, things that you've always wanted to do and try to accomplish something.
2006-10-10 11:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have your whole life ahead of you. Find a nice girl to settle down with, get married, have some kids, get a home, retire when you are about 65 or 70, enjoy the grandkids then. Having a family will definitely keep you busy. If you aren't wanting a family, then date girls that don't want to settle down and have some fun. You have a long time to live so enjoy it. Wait until you are in your 50s or 60s, or later, then contemplate what to do next. I am 41, engaged to be married for the third time (last two marriages failed horribly cause the guys were total losers and abusers), and am totally enjoying life and all it has to offer. That's what you and everyone else needs to do.
I agree with what someone else said: if you aren't happy with your life, then change it. NO ONE else will change it for you. Only YOU can do this. Don't depend on others to make you happy or to change things for you. It is up to YOU to do the work to be happy with your life. Now, get busy, figure out what it is you want out of it, and do what it takes to get there.
2006-10-10 12:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pursue things that make you happy. You could travel to places you've always wanted to go to, save up money to buy a home, get a hobby, volunteer, meet a girl you could have a relationship with, get married and start a family.
Basically, there is no answer to this question. There are many things you could do with your life, just be creative and find something you love, so that you can feel satisfied in life.
2006-10-10 11:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, its only downhill from here. I'm still doing the school thing, and I have already ditched most of my friends. You may as well get shacked up with a nice honey. Maybe, have kids depends on how you feel about them.
2006-10-10 11:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by Slappin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like uve pretty much done what you had to do. so what do you WANT to do with your life? it appears to me like you dont even like your job.. well, here's my advise. for starters, go on a blind date, travel once in a while, make a bunch of friends, eat fancy delicious foods... discover stuff that you have fun doing. ride a rollercoaster, go bunjee jumping. anything exciting that you could hopefully brag about or laugh about with people you love. life is too short. you're lucky you have the chance to finish the school thing and have a job thing. not everyone has that option in their lives. or better yet.. donate to charity. do something you could definitely feel good about.
2006-10-10 11:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by shenggoy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's good you've got a hobby. Maybe you can make goals for yourself and save your money and travel to those places that interest you. We've never travelled overseas ourselves and I feel like I miss out on that.
2006-10-10 17:04:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean i just turned 23 yesterday and i feel the same way the only suggestion i can make is to find someone that shares the same hobbies that you do .
2006-10-10 11:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sad for you that you aren't getting more out of life.
Life shouldn't be unsatisfying at all
Find something you are passionate about, whether that be moving up the corporate ladder, climbing the tallest mountain or selling all your world possessions and moving to Timbuktu!
If you aren't happy with your life... Change it!
2006-10-10 11:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone to talk to... Try talking to the friends you still have! Maybe its time you settle down and get married and have children. I know that's not for everyone, but I know I would be lost without my kids everyday I know I have something to live for =)
2006-10-10 11:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by Heather C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in your mid 20's and already bored with life?
So sad
I'm 50 and still live life to its fullest
2006-10-10 11:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋