So my ex boyfriend of 3 years called me up the other day and asked for sex i was like what the hell! I never had sex with him and he suddenly thinks i will now! I dont want him thinking of me as a booty call i'd rather him not even think of me at all..what should i tell him?
2006-10-10 11:03:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Er.. ah.. thanks, but no thanks.. but I have moved on and you should to... bye now... click
2006-10-10 11:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you are no longer together and you never had sex with him before so why would you now. Also, tell him that you are not going to be used as a "booty call". Finally, if he asks again, whatever friendship you still had will be over.
Straighten him out now!
2006-10-10 11:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by Apple21 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not a booty call and since you never slept with him in the first place thinking you would not would be just plain stupid!
Tell him not to call you again and to find someone else for his casual sex.
If he persists... get a restraining order against him!
2006-10-10 11:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you have a good man on your side because any man who would wait 3 years just to get some is really patient. I'm thinking that he probably is tired if waiting or he figures that it's time to take it to the next level. I think you should sit him down and talk to him and tell him how you really feel about this situation.
2006-10-10 11:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take his calls anymore and don't give him the booty. Men are going to try. That is their mission in life is to get as much sex as they can.
2006-10-10 11:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him hat if he can't think of you in an operate way to **** off and leave you the hell alone. Ask him what makes him think that he's gonna get so play if he didn't get any while y'all were together. Men are crazy my ex thinks of me the same way, i got tired of it so I started thinking and treating him like one. He didn't like it now he knows how I feel.
2006-10-10 11:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by mocha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be trying to get you to talk to him again..Sometimes negative attention is better then no attention.He probabley wanted to talk to you and used the sex thing for an excuse.You should know.If you went with him for three years and it wasn't a issue then why would it be now.Plus doesn't he know your answer anyway..Think about it.
2006-10-10 11:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thinks that after three years, you are giving it up. He may enjoy your company and all that too. Tell him to leave you alone if you want nothing to do with him. If he keeps calling, don't answer.
2006-10-10 11:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u really dont want to be on that level then just sit him down and explain it to him. but maybe if he's that type where he only calls you now for sex that id tell him to get to steppin.
2006-10-10 11:22:33 · answer #9 · answered by toni b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he drinking when he called? Tell him he's got you confused with a hooker he must know, and hang up the phone.
2006-10-10 11:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm he think u a booty call fa real gurl
2006-10-10 11:06:11 · answer #11 · answered by philly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋