Me and my boyfriend are 4 years apart. It's kind of illegal that we date so we had to keep it on the down low. He said at first him and my sister where friends. Then out of the blue he said that he really likes her. I told him this was going to happen from the beginning. He told me it was the only way I would get to see him without sneaking him in the house. He said he'l always love me but if he really loved me and didn't want to hurt me wouldn't he leave her alone and really be JUST FRIENDS with her??? Please help me I'm so confused.
2006-10-10 11:00:43 · 18 answers · asked by FoxE_single _lady37 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's playing both you and your sister. He's leading you on, while he gets to see your sister more often. You need to be done with this guy, and let him know it. It's hard, but when you're older, you'll realize that there are other guys out there that are going to treat you better.
2006-10-10 11:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl leave that guy alone he ain't worth it any guy that falls for anyone else after he made a promise isn't the type of guy you would want to date. The guy should be straight forward and not dis-honest if he really liked your sister he should have said that from the beginning and not string you along. Give him the boots.
2006-10-10 18:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by antionette_jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie sweetie sweetie, lets consider what you just told us here, your relationship according to state law is not even legal...
he wants to "be" with your sister and "be" with you at the same time..dont answer this but i hope you did not have sex with him...
I understand that you are young and probably not mature enough, but it seems that neither is he.
for your safety and your family's you should stop the relationship.
your sister should be more important than a guy who does not care about your feelings and goes off with another chick, which happens to be your sister.
Think this carefully honey, dont fall in love with him...dont see him again,, and make sure to know how to file a restraining warrant, just in case..
i have a feeling you will be needing on..
2006-10-10 18:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by newbie wife 6/16/07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, If a BOTFRIEND is anything like a boyfriend, then just let him have your sister and go find someone else. If he doesn't like you then what is the point in dating him?
2006-10-10 18:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're boyfriend likes your sister, then you shouldn't go out with him because he's probably only going out with you so he can see your sister.
2006-10-10 18:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by Thing H. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's illegal that you are dating, your boyfriend could be charged with statutory rape and thrown in jail! You tell him that and you tell him to get away from both you and your sister or you will tell the police. And do it.
2006-10-10 18:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont date guys 4 years older, i know from experience and they are obviously not good for you. find out who you are and what you want dont be with someone who is going to use and pressure you.
2006-10-10 18:02:37 · answer #7 · answered by *Cole* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like this guy doesnt want to commit to being with one person. even if you guys move on and him and your sister are ONLY FRIENDS seems like he will just find someone else to like. if i were you i would break it off now...sounds like he will just end up hurting you if you dont.
2006-10-10 18:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry this is happening to you. I know you won't like my reply, but you really should tell your parents. I know you don't feel like he his taking advantage of you but he is. Please tell your parents. He is a person who is taking advantage of you. He will tear apart your relation with your sister also. Please get away from this man.
2006-10-10 18:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's eventually gonna be banging both you and your sister. if you want it so he bangs just your sister and not the both of you, then drop him. then ask your sister how big his d*ck is and wonder if you shoulda had your brains humped out by him too.
2006-10-10 18:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋