girls always say how men are not open and dont talk and always say stupid crass things etc i have 2 examples of this being wrong just in one afternoon...first i was looking after some children in the school,that i work in after an after school drumming class and the drumming teacher ...a man...suddenly just reached out and touched the skirt of my fdress and said 'i really like what you're wearing,you look lovely'...i was quite taken aback by his open comment, even in front of some parents, and it wasnt said in a slimy way,lol...the second is that 2 drunks were in the pub and they were discussing how theyd f*cked up their relationships in real depth and were really supporting each other...again i was quite taken aback...im not one to judge a book by its cover ever but i think we girls can be a bit harsh sometimes...what do you think?
2006-10-10 10:59:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeh i defo agree there ur all bitches! haaaaha! by the way drummer boy fancies u and duh the others are raving alcoholics who wont even kno what they spoke about in the morning
2006-10-10 12:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by adriboff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of my friends are girls and come to me for advice from 'a mans point of view', I always try to be honest as well as sympathetic etc but above all I just listen.
I think the reason that women think we aren't be sensitive is that we treat things different, women need to talk things over with someone to help them process whatever is wrong, guys are more likely to find somewhere by themselves and do this internally before letting others know. This doesn't mean we dont care!! The reason that I do that is to protect whoever else is involved from worrying.
By the way I am straight, I'm just more honest about my emotions than most men as I dont bother with male bravado
2006-10-10 13:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you scratch beneath the surface you'd find an awful lot of sensitive men hide beneath a layer of macho. I've got no problems expressing myself or my feelings which seems to get up some blokes noses for some reason. At the other end of the scale I've known some women that are completely tactless cows! Both genders have their fair share of each I'd say.
2006-10-10 11:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by Warlock Fiend 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously men are as sensitive as women. But there way of expressing are different. There are many women who are less sensitive and sometime it seems weather or not they have any sensitive feeling at all ? When a women looks from their point of view they find men are not sensitive enough and a men looks from their point of view and finds women are either too much or not.
2006-10-10 11:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by dotab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men can be very sensitive. They don't always like to show it and they sometimes need a prop - like getting very drunk - to let it out. Most men are as body-conscious as women, they just don't talk about it so much.
And watch any new dad with his child and you'll see they can be more emotional than women.
2006-10-10 11:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of the greatest mistakes we can make is to judge someone by their appearance - whether is because they are male/female, black/white, gay/staight etc.
Some men are sensitive, some women drive like jerks. Some straight people like Liza Minelli and some gay men like boxing.
When we stop compartmentalising and forcing people in stereotypes something wonderful happens because we see people for the people they are.
2006-10-10 11:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She, all men outside the door feel they have to prove themselves to other men, but once back home behind closed doors, they can be sensitive, great fathers and wonderful lovers to their wives. Men can be sensitive that is for sure.
2006-10-10 11:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by David Wilson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband is really sensitive, Probably why i love him sooo much. It just takes the odd one to wreak it for the others. After all they are only human, they have feelings.
2006-10-10 12:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by Sianie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, men can definatly be sensitive. I'm sensitive but a lot of times I don't really show it.
2006-10-10 11:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by Dan T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course we are sensitive well am thats for sure and am open minded about.. most men act the big hardman but deep inside they are all sensitive they just wont admit it
2006-10-10 11:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by rusty red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 04:07:38 · answer #11 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋