i want a non serious relationship with a decent guy, been trying and looking to find one but failed for long time! am i picky or is there a problem? People tell me all kinds of compliments but not the ones that i would prefer to hear from, i have no problem with my looks or whatever...how should i find my new boyfriend? help! dying of boredom
2006-10-10 10:42:33 · 4 answers · asked by Luna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, there's your problem right there. You're bored? You need to go out and get yourself a life. Stop waiting for a boyfriend; join some clubs, take some classes, something. Go to a museum. Whatever.
There's two reasons I'm saying this. First, the truth is, you are going to spend plenty of time single. That's just the way it is nowadays. You gotta get used to it. Second, if you don't do anything and you are just looking for a boy, you are going to be a)boring, because you are bored and have nothing to talk about and b) desperate seeming, because as soon as you start on that "I want a boy!" thing, the boys run. This is true even if you only want a casual boy. Think about it: can't you tell when a guy is desperate? And doesn't that make you want to run screaming?
2006-10-10 10:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by random6x7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that your lookin for what most women want a good f u c k. it's ok I want a good f uc k too. the difference between you and me is that you want some bull sh it relationship to validate the sex and I don't need that. I'm perfectly fine with having f u ck buddies. You think you'll be a s lu t if you have a one night stand. well you'll be surprised how many guys would be in a relationship with you just for sex on a regular. I don't dig relationships like that if were going to have sex lets do it and don't bulls hit me about not calling afterwards. I'll call you or you can call me when it's time to do it again. holla if your female from the bayarea.
2006-10-10 10:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your trying too hard. Things seem to happen when we least expect it. You have every right to be picky. But, it might take quite awhile if its a decent guy that your trying to find - there aren't many around
2006-10-10 10:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a club. if someone asks you what's going on, say your looking for a good time. you'll find yourself someone that wants to tango.
2006-10-10 10:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋