Well, I'm getting lots of bad grades, my passion in life doesn't seem as fun to me anymore, the pressures of school is kicking in, and this girl is playing games with me. You see, one day she will pucker her lips at me, the other she won't say a thing to me. She even gave this other a hug after not seeing him for a long time. What's wrong with giving me a hug? In fact what's wrong with me? I need help esp. w/the latter.
2006-10-10 10:40:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Oh and I just need to vent b/c I'm so mad now after seeing that guy get a hug.....
2006-10-10 10:43:36 · update #1
and getting told off by my teacher
2006-10-10 10:44:32 · update #2
HOW IS THIS GIRL A *****?? PLZ EXPLAIN!!
2006-10-10 10:48:05 · update #3
I no this may sound stupid but think of all the good things in your life, like your family and your m8s. If you start looking not as interested in this girl then she will start to like you more. Play harder to get. Instead of concentrating on what shes doing, concentrate more on your passion in life. BTW what is your passion? i was just the same when i was at school. i loved art and as i began year 10-11 the pressure of school kicked in and art seemed more a task than a thing i loved doing. I worked hard and finally passed. Once you have them grades your passion will come back. Now im living my dream and iv just moved to london and im in a top london art college. I love every min. Theres nothing wrong with you, we all felt like that, you just need to plan out where you wanna be in the future, if you want it so bad you will work at it until your plan comes true. Good luck m8. Hope this helps : )
2006-10-10 10:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you're still a teenager (I assume), I'll fill you in on a few things.
1. School is bullshit. The grades arn't nearly as important as schools make them out to be. As long as you do well enough to get onto the next level of your education, you'll be fine. Grades also come and go.
2.If life isn't as fun, have you tried changing things around to get some variety back? Join some new clubs, go to some news places etc.
3. As for the girl, there are 2 options.
A)She's a *****, and just wasting your time. Move on, find someone who you deserve and who deserves you.
B) She doesn't realise how you feel/how it effected you.
Hope it helps.
2006-10-10 10:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by Slappy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You've got to get your curiosity back if you want to get better grades, you're not going to perform if you're not interested.
High school girls are the most fickle beings on this planet, putting cats to shame. They can't be trusted for anything.
Young Guys are at least all trying to have sex without regard for anything else(and so can't really be trusted either), young girls have motivations that would put the biggest brains in the world into a spin.
Don't let getting behind in high school get you down, you are deciding what career you want and who you are. No girl you get with is going to be who you are really looking for, and your body is going to tell you to get with any girl no matter what.
What you should be careful of is getting lazy and not doing anything at all. Successful people are productive, learning, seeking, even when the rest of the world doesn't care what they are doing one bit, even when the rest of the world thinks they are 'losers' or whatever.
You've got to keep moving, otherwise your sunk.
And the ladies love a moving target. :)
p.s. and find some music that gets your mojo going! 'Get Back' by the Beatles and 'Keep Yourself Alive' by Queen come to mind...
2006-10-10 10:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jeremy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dr Brain... I could kick your *ss lol... He didn't answer what you wanted answered and instead gave a good answer to what you didn't want answered.
If i was you go up to the girl you like and give her a good kick in the minge... That'll get her attention... Then hug the bloke she hugged in front of you in front of her and make her think he's gay so she'll go for you.
This may sound stupid but it works... It did for me :)
2006-10-12 06:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man, honest and kind. God will bless you for being such a person.
In the Beginning God created heavens and earth.
God gives you air to breathe and sunshine to enjoy.
God gives you water to drink and food to eat.
God gives you a wonderful body and sound mind, to live.
God loves you, and you are precious to Him.
Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation.
Jesus’ love is boundless and everlasting.
We have the hope of Heaven through Jesus.
Life therefore has fantastic and glorious future!
(Digestion of above can even prevent depression and suicide attempt.)
2006-10-10 11:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by tmthyh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's just taking the micky out of you. Ignore her, that'll bug her.
2006-10-10 10:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by Ahwell 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋