I have been seeing this girl for about 3 years and I really love her and I think I treat her well. The problem is if we ever disagree on anything it turns into a huge fight and when she gets upset she wants to shut me out completely. Then we talk, things seem to be resolved, we hang out, have a good time, maybe even have sex. Then in the next couple of days she will tell me that she needs a break from our relationship. I had felt like things were fixed and moving forward if they weren't she should have told me. If I start questioning anything she eventually tells me she hates me. Then she will see me again and want to be with me within an hour after telling me she doesn't want me. It is very confusing to me how she can tell me all these things then tell me she wants to be together. The girls are gonna hate me for this but this happens everytime she is PMSing and she even tells me that is the cause of it. Should I put up with this? I think I just answered it myself. :(
2006-10-10 10:35:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she sounds like she's emtional she needs to control herself when she gets mad u should probably just let her think and get away for a bit if that don't work then she's just moody!
2006-10-10 10:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by Cherry Blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,I'm a 50 year old woman been married have grandchildren and been around the block,sounds to me like she is getting bored with the relationship.you don't tell someone you hate them either.sorry but pms is no damn excuse.there are things you can do about pms.i just got out of a relationship because of bordem.i wound't stay in this relationship ,life is to short.there are other women out there ,just be carefull in choosing. some you just can't trust. good luck.
2006-10-10 11:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by sue g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing mind games, believe me I'm in a relationship where there are continuous mind games, its not healthy and neither fair...u should consider either finding a happy medium or otherwise end it now before its too difficult...Not like me who is still with this person after 5 years...its just too difficult...so much time spent together...why waste that all now...right!!!!
2006-10-10 10:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by Domie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask your self the most important question of all: Can you live without the person? If the answer is yes you need to tell her you should see different people. if its yes you really need to tell her you love her and dont act all mean when shes pmsing or something like that. she is probabaly going through something rough so just be there for her.
2006-10-10 10:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont know thats up to you but i will say this when me n my man are arguing sometimes i like to be left alone or leave for an hour or two just to cool off cuz its something i really dont want to argue about but its something that pissed me off, so instead of trying to argue with him i will sometimes leave pissed off and when i come back after i cooled down i want to hug and kiss him, i cant say its right for her to do that, cuz i know it makes my man mad and when i come back he doesnt want me to love on him at the same time when he goes out and comes back in he wants to love and kiss and all that, if she is only doing this when shes on her period you might b auight to stay, but if its like everyday ever week or every couple of days watch out she could be starting an argument just for an excuse to leave so she can see some one or do some thing else- good luck
2006-10-10 10:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should not the girl is dis fUNctional the relationship is un stable you need to find someone who is mature enough to handle a relationship breaking up every five minutes is immature
2006-10-10 10:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by shaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAV THE SAME PROB I HAVENT FIGURED OUT MINE EITHER BUT I THINK FOR BOTH OF US SHE LOVES YOU JUS HAS ANGER AND TEMPER PROBLEMS AND ITS PROBABLY CAUSED FROM A BAD LIFE GROWING UP JUS TRY TO HELP AND TALK TO HER BUT IF IT REACHES A POINT WHERE SHE DOESNT WANNA COMPROMISE JUS LEAVE HER BUT STILL TRY TO BE THERE FOR HER
2006-10-10 10:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by pinkdraws_15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUN I AM SORRY BUT I DONT THINK IT HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH PMS, THIS GIRL HAS SOME ISSUES SHE NEEDS TO WORK OUT, LET HER GO NOW BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE
2006-10-10 10:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by babygirlknox30 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention her age. She sounds immature.
2006-10-10 10:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by ishootpix 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋