I am getting married soon,can someone give a real account of her marriage night.please, I am afraid.
2006-10-10 10:35:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My wedding night ... ahhhh
It was a great night, the only problem? As it took me 80 years to get all of the pins out of my hair, my new Husband was in the shower and had actually "fallen asleep" (I prefer to call this drunk and stupid) in the bathtub.
So, I ordered a pizza and a movie at 1 in the morning and when breakfast arrived the next morning, he was ready to eat and then have some private "lover" time! :)
Whatever happens, remember that you love him, he loves you and that is all that matters! Your wedding night doesn't have to be the most romantic or the way that you somehow thought it would turn out -- you have the rest of your life to have beautiful nights with your Husband that is the important part that I think most of us forget about when we are caught up in the fantasy of the magical, perfect wedding night.
Take a deep breath, relax, and have fun. You will just be married to the man of your dreams! Congratulations!
2006-10-10 10:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you are a virgin and that is why you are worried. to be honest i think you waiting till marriage is sweet and very respectable. Remembeer that if your groom waited this long for you he loves and respects you. I am sure you are shy and he knows that too. If he has saved himself as well he may be just as nervous. You do not have to have sex on that first night. You can start the way most of us did if you prefer. A makeout session, then some manual or oral stimulation. I am sure you guys will be so into each other and the moment when the actual penetration part comes you will be very ready and very wanting. Dont expect the first time to be fabulous either. Sex is a learning and fine tuning experience especially if you are both virgins. Relax and enjoy your new lives together.
2006-10-10 17:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by kelene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid. It's really not bad at all, quite pleasurable in fact. It may hurt a little at first, but it will go right away, especially if your husband is gentle and remembers that it is your first time. Don't get yourself all worked up about it-the nerves will only make you more stressed and make it more difficult for you to relax and enjoy it. Just go with the flow and concentrate on the here and now and don't worry about what will happen.You'll find that it's actually very easy to enjoy.
2006-10-10 17:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by brainy_blonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi sorry i know you said only ladies but i just wanted to tell you not to be afraid this will be the best day and night you will ever have in your life.Remember you are going to marry a person that loves respects and values you in more ways than you probably know.so again don't be afraid just enjoy it for what it will be the best day of your life.You should talk to a friend though cause this is something that shouldn't be a worry before your big day.Best of luck i know it will be OK and sorry again i know you said ladies only but i hope this helps even a small bit
2006-10-10 17:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by ocairde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage night as in night after the formal ceremony of marriage? We partied 'til late at night, lotsa rum, and then went to bed... Two separate beds, actually, we were camping... and fell asleep. If you're asking about sex specifically, we had had sex before, with each other and, prior to our meeting, with other people. So there wasn't anything new or exciting to be looking forward to after the formal ceremony.
2006-10-10 17:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We didn't wait until our wedding night, but it was the first time for both of us when we got together. It was special because of that, but also kind of embarrassing because neither of us knew what we were doing. But at least we were equal in that.
Don't be afraid, just realize that if it's his first time too, it's not going to be perfect. But maybe you'll be able to laugh about it later. You'll get better at it, I promise.
2006-10-10 20:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be afraid a large majority of people have already done the deed before the wedding night, so chill and relax.
2006-10-10 18:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by LV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wedding night was very quiet. We were exhausted from the wedding and travel to honeymoon. We just curled up together and went to sleep. Lots of folks do the same. The rest of the honeymoon was wonderful! Make sure you have a caring husband who wants to please you (as much as be pleased) and you will be fine.
2006-10-10 17:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by Apple21 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on your wedding night just relax, wear something pretty and sexy. Try to ignore your nervousness and let go. "Making love" is just that. Express your love to your new husband in every way you know possible...let your feelings guise you. You can also but books at any book store on sexual positions and methods of pleasuring. Buy one and really study it before your wedding. It'll be just fine I'm sure. Good luck!
2006-10-10 17:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by happilymarried 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That varies. I didn't do anything.
Of course some girls just go party at a club while others go the stripper route. Personally I think strippers are a ridiculous idea for bachelor/ bachelorette parties.
2006-10-10 17:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by bbydol221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋