My ex boyfriend and I broke up one and a halph mounths ago, and he was the one who broke off the relationship. The break up was on a Saturday. It was soo weird because he started crank calling me the same week on Wednesday. He would call and just stay quiet. That day he called me 10 times. The crank call kept going for a few weeks. I knew that the crank caller was my ex boyfriend becasue we went to the verizon place so they can scan the private caller which was the crank caller, and it ended coming out under his name. The day that he stopped crank calling me was when I confronted him, and he denied it in an angry way. I don't understand why my ex will crank call me if he was the one who broke up with me... What do you think about this?
2006-10-10 10:29:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whether or not he is having second thought about breaking up with you.............YOU have now seen a side of him thats not nice.........
IF he continues start making a note of dates and times he calls and for the time being dont pick up when you dont recognise the number or if its blocked.................you can always check on your voice mail and return calls you want to / need to........
Dont even discuss things with him if they dont reply when you say hello then you hang up period.....
Good luck and what ever you do DONT go back to this nutter
2006-10-10 10:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by candy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want you, but he doesn't want anybody else to have you either. It's a classic case in a lot of men. He has control issues. Just stay away from him like you are, you're doing the right thing. Eventually he will move on. You don't need someone harrassing you and making you feel bad. You are better then that!
2006-10-10 17:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by ggirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm... can anyone say REGRET!! This dude is obviously regretting the break up and the only way to get your atention is to pester you. (like the 3rd grade when guys kicked you and pulled your hair)...Just tell him politely that he decied to end things. And if he does not feel like he made the right decision then he needs to talk to you like a "big boy"....If he doesn't stop you can always sign up for stuff on the internet and use his phone number!!!! That will get him back!
2006-10-10 17:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by *~Love is Dead~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason i think he keeps callin u is because now he knows he has made a dumb mistake. and that was breakin up with u and he really wants u back but doesnt want to come out straight and say that. its kind of a thing with boys so thats why he's doin that. maybe u should keep doin what ur doin and keep seein if he keeps doin what he's doin. and if he does then u know he still wants u.
2006-10-10 17:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by cornpiston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's about control. Sounds like the guy has some issues with anger and the need to control/manipulate people. He also sounds a bit passive/aggressive. Good for you for confronting him! Hope he leaves you alone now!
2006-10-10 17:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he still had/has feelings for you but just didn't want the commitment of having to be your bf and just yours. he wasn't completely ready to let go of you yet and just wanted to play around with you. i don't think he meant it in a mean or annoying way if he was the one who left you
2006-10-10 17:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by wendydahhling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels like he left something unsaid and [still] doesn't have the guts to communicate with you effectively. Or/and he probaly regrets it, most men do as soon as they get horny
2006-10-10 17:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by island girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prob. because he knows he messed up....he just wants to hear your voice and give YOU a chance to ask him to come back. That's exactly what my hubby did when we broke up. Finally he told me he wanted to meet and talk with me. We got back together and now are married.
2006-10-10 17:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems wicked immature its good that you too aren't going out anymore.Let him miss you and go on with your life, find some one else who makes you happy and get over this old jerk.
2006-10-10 17:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but file a Police report and give them the information you have they will talk to him.Good Luck ..
2006-10-10 17:33:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋