2006-10-10 10:29:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is. Well it does depend on how things ended and if u forgave them. My boyfriend doesn't agree with all the ex-boyfriends that i have that are still my friends but i always tell him that even though we are broken up doesn't mean i have to hate them and not talk to them. I have a lot of friends that are still friends with their ex s its nothing bad its better that ur not hating eachother. THe only exception is if it was a really bad break up or if he or she really hurt u and u kno ur better off not talking again.
2006-10-10 10:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by MEri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about NORMAL, but I think it's unusual. My wife has stayed friends with all her Exs'. It's just a case of being grown up and being able to move on. You chose not to be with them anymore, or visa versa, and you have to respect peoples decisions.
There is always something better round the corner.
i'm not friends with my Exs' but only because I don't know where they are!
2006-10-10 10:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Blackbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but i think that it takes time after the split has happened. I am good friends with my ex partner and we was together for 14 years, we have only became friends a few months ago and that was a couple of years after we split, I am also friends with another ex boyfriend we was together for only 6 months, it took us a year to speak to one another and become friends after we had split,
I think that it is possible but you have to give it time after your rel ends so that you can both have different experiences and you feel that you have both moved on and away from the rel that you both shared to be able to be friends with one another.
2006-10-10 22:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am still with friends with most of my ex boyfriends- there was a reason why I was attracted to them and dating them- some of them I had to "get over" and now we are great friends. It all depends on if it was a friendly break-up that was agreed upon, or if you both knew it just wasn't going to work.
2006-10-10 10:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course! I was with my first serious boyfriend for 14 years. We are best mates now and even when we both married (him twice) we still invited each other to Family events and still do.
As for ex-husbands...now thats a different story!
2006-10-10 10:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by puffy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive stayed friens with a few of my exes
oh yeah Im a guy
2006-10-10 10:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is, but only if love has stopped on the both sides.only in that case u have chance for real friendship, in any other case it wouldn`t be very healthy relation and it would be best to avoid it.
2006-10-10 10:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by tigerlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea but thats rare if u did thats good for u, cuz most couples stay mad at each otherand stay like that for a long time.
2006-10-10 10:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is ok to b pals with ur ex bt if u stil hav emotions for him then i might advise u to shrink all communications with him bcoz it would harm u much extra whilst he unearths som1 else and it must be cleared out that u r the ex.shop your self the heartache and run mutually as u stil can.
2016-10-19 04:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it just depends how whether u can still stand to be near each other...did u break up messily or wot?it shud be ok, but be totally sure with urself u wont be jealous if hes seeing other girls
2006-10-10 11:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by belleoftheball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋