we talked about our bad habits and i changed my habits and now she has not changed hers and i don't want to be the father in the relationship but its messing with my mo-go
2006-10-10 10:04:13 · 7 answers · asked by Guy 29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should move on
2006-10-10 10:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should not expect someone to change just because you don't like something and she should have expected you too. That is not what you are in a relationship for. My bf has some bad habits I don't like and I have mentioned them to him, I didn't tell him to stop them. He stopped some but still does others and just go on about my business. If she hasn't changed that could be because she likes the way she is and if you can't deal with it, then you just need to move on. Mention it again and see what happens, if ya want, but if you love her then you will love everything about her and visa-versa. Good luck
2006-10-10 17:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all discuss with her truthfully how you feel about her not changing her ways as agreed. Then stress to her how important it is for her to change, because although she cannot make you stop loving her (at least not immediately) she CAN make you stop feeling you alls relationship. Now if she begins to show progress stick with her. It could take a short time or a long time depending on how bad the problem is. My boyfriend gave me plenty of time because he knew that I loved him with all my heart and that I was definitely going to change. And he didn't even have any bad habits himself!
2006-10-10 17:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by atlsfemaleassassain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she knows what habits you are talking about because i know from experience that sometimes they dont change their bad habits because they dont know which habits are considered bad to you.
Just give her some time and address the issue again.
2006-10-10 17:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by Steve G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your will is signed and your life insurance paid up I would not broach the subject again.
2006-10-10 17:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay!
MOVE ON!
If she cant change for you... Then she never will!
2006-10-10 17:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes talk to her and if she doesnt change and it bothers you that much then leave
2006-10-10 17:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by goldenprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋