2006-10-10 09:59:37 · 18 answers · asked by Nifty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and if you want to personally put me down then go F*CK yourself!! Putting other people down to make you look good makes you look a ****
2006-10-10 10:04:32 · update #1
that is just the way we are - Hey i am attracted too you and i can not have you --- or could i ??? see what i mean
2006-10-10 10:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me about it, lol.
Normally it's because you realise what you've missed out on, when you see the person with there new partner, (If you fancied the person before).
And sometimes it's because we just feel attracted to the person and can't help it. If somebody reasonably attractive starts talking or hanging around with you, Then it's hard not to get attracted.
Some people just like a challenge and go for things they can't have.
2006-10-10 17:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Sereniti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you just notice more cos if you were attracted to someone you could have, you would, and then you wouldn't think about it anymore.
I partly think it's a safety issue and a dreaming issue, if you know that there is no chance ever of having them then daydreams about them are safe because they'll never spoil your rose-tinted specs. Also if you can't ever have them then they can't ever hurt you.
And lastly, if you fancy someone you never see their bad side, you only ever realise that they leave their scrotty pants with skid marks in them on the bedroom floor for two weeks when you start going out :o)
2006-10-10 17:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do that too!I was attracted to this boy in my school but I had a feeling,I can't have him.So I just gave up.Besides his ex-girlfriend is planning on getting back together with him.So I have no choice but leave it alone.So I have no idea why we're attracted to people we can't have.
2006-10-10 17:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we all need to imagine how things could be it helps us get through the daily life stuff...a little dream..a hope ..a desire...
2006-10-10 17:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by morison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the best ones are always already taken.
2006-10-10 18:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those that you can have are in the past tense, those that
you cannot have, provoke your imagination into a frenzy.
2006-10-10 17:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you always think the grass is greener on the other side which of course isnt true
2006-10-10 17:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz you dont really want them
2006-10-10 17:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos you always want what you cant have and if you get it you dont want it
2006-10-10 17:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋