Well the guy I been with for two months. Well, first time I was intimate with him was about 2 wks ago. I know he likes me because we are together a lot, and he is very romantic. But I feel like I am rejected when it comes at being intimate. He is always tirer or has a headache. I dont know maybe he had a problem b4, but im not sure. But I am not happy about that at all. Is it that he dosent want me. Maybe there is a problem>? What should I do?
2006-10-10 09:53:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't mention your ages. You had better come right out and ask him. Ask him if you're not doing something he likes. Maybe he's too shy to ask for it. Could be medical if he's older. Bottom line is that you are unhappy and you need an answer.
2006-10-10 09:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its posible that he's just uncomfortable with being intimate. You should sit down with him and have a conversation about it. You will never know until you actually ask him about it. Maybe he's embarassed about something, like he doesn't like being naked or something of that sort.
2006-10-10 09:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by JayEmmBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your intimacy wasnt what he thought it would/should be.
However, it's probably more like the challange is over. Sometimes the anticipation is greater than the actual delight.
You sound confused. How do you KNOW that he likes you, if you feel rejected??? Sounds like it's time to move on.....
And PLEASE dont be so willing to give up the treasure! :)
2006-10-10 09:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God suggests that one only be intimate with his/her spouse. This would certainly eliminate a lot of problems. Blessings.~Nise~
2006-10-10 10:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by newfsdrool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. It is possible that he doesn't want to be intimate yet.
2006-10-10 09:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by Sporty C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes a low or high desire for intimacy is linked to genetics. It doesnt mean hes not attracted to you or maybe hes insecure about himself or he might think hes not good enough at it or that you might think that. ask him about it
2006-10-10 09:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Elektra:Assassin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him "Why do you always make excuses to not spend time with me?".Ask him that!Probably he's cheating on you (hope not).Just explain to him how you feel.
2006-10-10 09:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldjust ask him why he dose the things he dose before getting intimate
2006-10-10 09:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by talaya h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, find someone that will give you what you want
2006-10-10 09:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋