i still have feelings for my ex even though we have not been together for some time. when we were together it was wonderful and even though we seperated it was not what we wanted to do but it was the bestthing for us both at that time.
in the last year or more he mentioned about us getting back together. i am happy about this but nervous. we were married for years and even though we divorced we never stopped loving each other.
is it possible that love can stand time and still be true? i really hope so
2006-10-10 09:52:59 · 15 answers · asked by edcltu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it's possible. There are many cases where "exes" have hooked up again down the track and gone on to a bright future. There would probably be as many, though, where the second time around is not so successful.
Life without risk is no life at all - give it a chance, just proceed with caution :-) I wish you only happiness & a great life, whatever the future holds.
2006-10-10 09:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by belmyst 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that u never stop loving a person, but ur love for that person changes. I love my husband but not the same way I did 6 years ago. If u both still have feeling for each other go on a couple of dates see how things go and work from there. There is always a possibility u guys left each other by mistake. Good Luck!
2006-10-10 09:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would start slow (easier said than done, I know) just like you had first met. Then if the relationship deepens and continues you have to really pay attention to the things that made you not like the other person in the first place and address those issues before you get remarried or you both will be a ticking time bomb waiting to blow up, again. If you can't get past the "divorce" or "break-up" issues, then you need to stay apart, but if you can than more power to you. Just don't jump blindly back into a relationship like a diver into a pool without knowing how deep it is. You're only going to get hurt then.
2006-10-10 09:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Falcon Boy Toy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A long seperation is what you may have needed. If you both work on the relationship regularly and start a new relationship (forget the old one). You could do well. I have been in this situation 3 times but it did'nt work. Each time you fail you have to go through all the pain again.
2006-10-10 10:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its possible if you both make it possible. I'm sure there are reasons why you two separated, but if you both want to work it out, it will. Perhaps the time apart made you two stronger, changed you both for the better, and allowed you two to figure things about yourselves. There is no model relationship that everyone must live according to. You just have to be in one that works for you. As long as you both believe, it will work. Good Luck!
2006-10-10 10:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From all the wonderful you wrote I just wonder why did you two get divorced in the first place. If you two really still love each other then get back together as sonn as possible. Good Luck and think a lot b4 you two plan to split again only to get back together again. :-)
2006-10-10 09:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by skepty 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My belief is that yes it is possible for love to stay true over the years. But this may be hard when you have been separated for a while. You may love what you 'used' to have. People change over the years. Love may never change, but people do. Sometimes for better! (lets hope!) and sometimes for worse. Keep this in mind when choosing to date them again. But all in all, my opinion would be to give it another chance. They came back into your life for a reason, you deserve to try it out again!
2006-10-10 09:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Since you were married to the guy your love for him should have never stopped. If you still love him then GO FOR IT whats stoppin you? Love can hurt, love can feel good but one thing for sure is love is the most awesome thing in the world and once you find love never let it go.
2006-10-10 10:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by Val 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just remind yourself of the reason why you left him in the first place.....getting back together will not automatically erase the problems you had before, i think you are in love with the idea of being able to rekindle an old flame...or is it the sex...maybe you feel like your missing out.
2006-10-10 09:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is........ go to him agian. be happy. You love eachother and your love is real and everlasting. I am really happy for you. That is a love that is rare is hardly ever heard of anymore. You have a very special love with this man and I hope you go to him and live the rest of your life with him. Blessed be.
2006-10-10 09:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋