I have been fingering my gf and she has giving me some handjobs and got me to climax but for some reason i cant get her to. Idk why. I really want to give her pleasure. I dont know if im doing it wrong or just not doing it long enough. How long should i stimulate her before she should climax? ive tried oral but i dont think shes comfortable with me seeing her because we do it in the dark and she keep sher shorts on so i have to move them out of the way just to get to her vagina. help!
2006-10-10 09:46:30 · 8 answers · asked by cold_killa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be that she's not relaxed enough to just lay back & enjoy....
Or you may not be hitting the right spot. The G spot is on the inside wall at the front (belly button side) a few inches up. If you feel with your fingers on the inside front, you should feel some sort of a swelling. Concentrate on that area, moving in a tapping motion. You'll need to build up your wrist muscles, I'm sure they'll get tired as it could take some time. You should know by her reaction if you have the right spot. Just keep working it.
2006-10-10 09:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by BettyBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you need the love doctor!!! The best option is to tell her how beautiful and amazing she is...how beautiful her body is and once she feels comfortable with that you then push it further! Try first by doing things that contain getting to know one anothers bodies, like showering together or bathing! Then u move further by asking her to show you where she likes to be touched as every girl knows how to pleasure themselves and from there you need to work your own magic taking everything you have learnt together into consideration...Goodluck, and remember to be confident in what you are doing...maybe talk to her during as well it does sometimes help! Once again Goodluck
2006-10-10 10:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by Domie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is she isn't comfortable with what is happening. For a girl 90% of sex is in the head. If she is feeling guilty or is scared or somethning there isn't much you can do to get her off.
talk to her and ask her what she likes. have her show you with her hands (believe me she knows what it takes to get herself off - just like you know what you need to do to yourself to get off).
If she doesn't want to show you then perhaps you need to go back to just kissing and holding hands for a while.
2006-10-10 09:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time just concentrate on her only, curve your finger alittle, play with the cl-t.
2006-10-10 09:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot to learn! But the internet is not where you're going to learn it!
2006-10-10 09:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is different for ever lady to get her to orgasm. you have got to figure it out.
2006-10-10 09:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats her problem
2006-10-10 09:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by 571234 6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wtf
2006-10-10 09:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋