The girl in my office will come over to my desk and when we talk about work or customers she always plays with her shirt almost pushing it up exposing her skin and navel ring..Were both in relationships and am I just reading to much into this?
2006-10-10 09:36:56 · 16 answers · asked by Xander 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't matter, she as 2 strikes against her already, hooking up with someone you work with is bad enough, if you are both in relats, it will make the situation all the more painful in the end
Flirting happens a lot in the office, just enjoy it... unless you'd rather stare at TPS reports instead of navel rings
2006-10-10 09:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by D_Herz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the look on her face. Is she staring off into space when she does it? If that is the case, it could just be a habit that she is used to doing, or she does it out of boredom. If she is looking you straight in the eyes with a little coy smile..she probably wants you. Pay more attention to how she is acting mentally, instead of physically :)
2006-10-10 17:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.. she is telling you that she wants you to notice her... perhaps her abs are a lot better looking that your gf/wife?
Women only expose the parts of the body we are proud of and think will entice others to notice us.
So.... you need to decide if want to continue this and let thing happen... or if you want to say someting like " i love your abs and your bb-ring.. but I'm in a relationship and while she isn't as hot as yours ... she is mine and I need to keep it that way".
but.. don't count on her coming around anymore to talk to you either...
2006-10-10 16:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in a relationship, what difference does it make?
Anyway, girls and boys are guilty of wanting the same pleasures...they like to feel that they could still get with someone even tho they're taken at least for the moment. We all want to feel like someone else is attracted to us. That's why she plays with her shirt, (to make you think of her in a sexual way) and that's why you're enjoying it. (because you want to think she's trying to entice you)
2006-10-10 16:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you said it man, you are in a relationship. So if you are thinking about this other girl, no matter what her intentions are, your mind IS in the gutter.
The best policy is to end one relationship before you go looking for another one.
2006-10-10 16:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is a slut. Are you really gonna cheat on your girlfriend just so you can have a good time? Give your girl some spiked chocolate. We love that. The slut is just showing off, and she doesn't mean anything by it.
2006-10-10 16:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not reading too deep, what you see is what you get. It's obvious she's flirting w/ you. I'd go for it, you only live once... might as well make it interesting. Ask for a happy hour w/ happy ending.
2006-10-10 16:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably is either into you or just very "free spirited" as they say.
My advice: Don't sh-- where you eat. If you do it and things don't work out or someone catches feelings, it will be awkward. Potential for a serious mess...
2006-10-10 16:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by Achaholic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably attracted to you, and her body is responding in that way. If you care about your girlfriend and your relationship, I wouldn't think too much into it!
2006-10-10 16:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Compliment her on her ring and see what comes up.
2006-10-10 16:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋