I just met this guy about a month or so ago. We have never really gone anywhere together and he's never spent a dime on me. He has asked me for money before for "snacks and chewing tobacco) On the second "date" he wanted to sit down and talk about budgeting and wanted to decide on a budget for the both of us. He even asked me if it bothered me that I made alot more than he does. I told him that we were barely seeing each other and that it was way too soon for a conversation like that. Then he went over to my father's house and asked my dad for my hand in marriage. My father said we're both adults but that we had his blessing. My aunt hates the guy she thinks he is after my income. The guy brought up budgets and income again after the talk with my father and then asked me to marry him and I said (testing him) sure and that he would have to sign a prenup. Ever since then his attentions have cooled considerably and I never see him. Was my aunt right? Was this guy after my money
2006-10-10 08:58:51 · 23 answers · asked by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uhhhh yeah he's after your money. Why wouldn't he. he hasn't spent a dime on you. Do you want to marry him? Be honest with yourself. I sure the answer is no. I mean he sounds very creepy, sneaky and manipulative. trust your aunt she is older and wiser. don't be a fool and marry that man and then he cleans you dry. that would be so foolish.
2006-10-10 09:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by mdbdyot 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course! your aunt was right. He is a gold digger, how can a man be asking for money from his date to buy snacks on their first day out and not stopping there, drafting a budget for you both? it is unheard of. you do not need a sooth sayer to tell you now that he is after your money since he disappeared after you spelt out your 'own name too' . I think you should take your aunt out for a nice lunch for giving you a nice advise. The next time you see the guy, tell him to go to hell! Congratulations girl.
2006-10-10 09:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! Get out of the relationship FAST! This guy really is after your money. You are smart to test his intentions. If I were you, I would cut off all contact with this guy....if that is possible. You never know..later on he might try the same stuff. He has already asked you to marry him??? That is crazy! He is either very desperate for money and/or he is very insecure. What is pretty scary is, he probably would have tried to make you bankrupt and run off and you'd never see him again..AND YOUR CASH! Good luck and like I said....get out of the relationship. This guy doesn't sound like he's worth keeping.
2006-10-10 09:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by freakykittygoddess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A few. Including my sons. Both wanted to get married before they had children. It was important to them - more important than their wives. In fact, I'm not sure I know any woman who insisted on getting married, as such. I do know women who were in a relationship and wanted to move onto the next stage. But insisting is too strong a word.
2016-03-28 03:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by Shane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him tha you need to know him better life is short i know but you can't just jump into marriage without knowing if the person has a like or dislike that you can't live with in the near future.
Tell him that you need space to think about the answer first before you jump to conclutions!
Good luck with your decision!!
2006-10-10 09:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by Neckia H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your Aunt is completely right men don't get that serious that quick and they also don't they also don't ask about budgeting. You should have never let him know how much money you have.
2006-10-10 09:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by Shonreaq G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who wants to figure out a budget on a second date is nuts. Run away!!
2006-10-10 09:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Now I know you can't be that simple minded! On the second date he wnated to budget your money????That alone should've told you something! Tell this guy to hit the road and find another sucker!
2006-10-10 09:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by geargrinderno1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your aunty was right. what a weird guy! He definitely was after your money and someone to take care of him too! Good riddance!
2006-10-10 09:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um YES. Honey the writing is all over the walls. Lose the Looser.
2006-10-10 09:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by to_sassy4_u 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋