Whiney, complains a lot, lack of confidence, needy, possessive, sissy, no-life or is it just my imagination?
2006-10-10 08:58:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK luv, here's the low-down from me:
Whiney/Complainers are self-pity-ing fools who just want attention and like to sabotage their own happiness... I can't see why any woman would be attracted to that!
Lack of self-confidence is usually normal for all men to go through at least at one point of their lives. This isn't a wonderful trait to look for in a man, and his lack of confidence will show in his body language.
Needy and possessive types are perhaps as bad as violent/abusers, because they end up being verbally and emotional violent in their possessive-ness. Needy types are like vampires; they suck out the energy out of you, and don't return it.
Sissy types? I think I usually steer clear of those, although alot of sissies I've met looked like jocks (big & buff) who act all "manly" on the outside but were totally insecure inside, hiding their insecurities under the buff and violent exterior.
No-life, well who wants to try a couples-life with a guy who has no self-life? If a guy lacks ambition, it only means his idea of commitment is riding off the back of the woman and reaping the benefits.
But these are generalisations; not all "selfish" types are 100% greedy or needy, and not all "nerds" are insecure... It all depends on the guy, his self-image (what he lives with inside versus the body he's forced to live with), his confidence. So it's a bit difficult to know what to think of a guy before you trully get to know him.
But as a general rule (sh*t I sound like my hubby here!) we chicks prefer a guy who is comfortable with himself over a needy-self-loathing type.
Plus I've had my share of "disturbed souls" in the past so I think I've already given to the cause!
2006-10-10 09:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by ButtahChick (ButterChick) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people generally dont want to be around people who are whiney, complain, lack confidence, are needy, possessive, sissy, or no-life. they're in general negative qualities.
2006-10-10 16:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhh well it is annoying when people are whiney and always complain and are needy and all that stuff but I like guys that are pretty much sissy and stuff, I think it's cute.
2006-10-10 16:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kelsey's Mommy<3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not hate.......but i don't think i wud like to have a bf who is whiney and all.........But i cud boost his confidence up......the right way i mean. Good LUcK!
2006-10-10 16:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO....
I believe it's across the board there. No one likes those personality traits.
Hey Aubrey don't you mean grow some ballz? ;)
2006-10-10 16:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't stand whinny people. If a person have all those qualities that you ask about they need help.
2006-10-10 16:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Tee-Tee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess they do. But boys hate this type of girls too.
2006-10-10 15:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by europe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they h8 them..thats too much like a female...a lady doesn't want a manly woman...hell naw. thank u come again.
2006-10-10 16:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by NVR UNDRESTM8 KARMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty &^/#'d up to "hate" somebody for having a personality that turns you off.
2014-02-07 17:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by nHUJFAOU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-10 16:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by hotredhead2655 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋