there's this guy i like and he lives with his baby's mama. i like him so much. he is so funny, and sweet and cute. however, he has my number and he's always telling me he'll call me then he doesn't. the sex between us is so good to me and i don't know how to let him go. should i keep on trying to call him or wait until he calls me? HELP!
2006-10-10 08:53:45 · 11 answers · asked by Infinite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give it up. He is going to stay with her and keep you for back-up.
Sorry.
2006-10-10 08:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by Saffernellie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I am going through the same thing! It's really hard to want to call him but can't for fear that his baby's mama might find out. I just wait until he's ready to call me. I don't want to seem "fatal attractionish" if you know what I mean. I think you should just go on with your daily life and not worry about him calling or not calling you. If he does, good. If he doesn't, that's o.k. too. It's his loss, right?
2006-10-10 08:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up. You are being stupid. This guy is not going to leave his baby's mama for you. The best thing for you to do is to go on and forget about him. Besides, he'd never be serious about being in a relationship with you because of the way you have reacted to this. It says a lot about a woman when she degrades herself by sleeping with a man knowing that he is involved with someone else. I don't mean to sound harsh, hon. But, it is the truth.
2006-10-10 08:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be anything more than a booty call, wait for him to call you. You will still be just a booty call, but you'll be slightly higher on the totem pole of importance in his life if he has to at least make the effort of trying to contact you.
You'll never be much more than that to him as long as he is living with another woman. If you're just in it for the sex, go for it. I have the feeling, though, that you want more than you are likely to ever get out of the relationship.
Sorry.
2006-10-10 08:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put on a very sexy sheer top with out a bra, wear a short skirt and go to a strip club find a guy that you think is good looking and ask him to f*ck you. Its time to move on there are lots of guys out there that you can have good sex with and that don't hav esome one in therer life that take up all there time. You are just a sex toy to him get your own sex toy and playyyyyyyy!
2006-10-10 08:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by carrie a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on and find your own man. If he lives w/ his child and the mother, then he is trying to give his child a home and a normal life. Shame on you for interfering- even if you think he is not happy. If you want to be happy, find someone who has the ability to give you 100%, you deserve to be treated like a Princess, and not a dirty little secret. Respect yourself Girl!
2006-10-10 08:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jessiham 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying, I can tell that you want him to be your babies daddy too. Give me a break here, leave him alone, he needs to take care of his responsibilties and it sounds like he is trying to do the right thing by at least attempting a relationship with his babies momma.
2006-10-10 08:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
girl im just gonna tell you straight up leave him alone i was in a similar situation and i really liked this guy to but the longer you let this go on the worst you'll feel when you get hurt girl trust me its not worth the pain you'll go through
2006-10-10 08:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by ebony princess 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give up. Find someone who will call you. Your worth it
2006-10-10 09:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by Tanner and Leahs MaMa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is with his child's mother than he is not yours, you are playing the whore. back off.
remember what goes around comes around. back off
2006-10-10 08:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by zqx357 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋