ok hears my story!
For those who know my story please help me out again and for those don't then let me explain:
I've got this major crush on this guy at school and so as for any average girl..she would try and get to know him better but...it turns out my best friend has a crush on him too but that's all ancient history now!!!
The point is: I signed up for the worng after school club...I thought he's friends said he was gonna sign up for Maths but turns out he signs up for japanese!!! (I can't sign up for japanese cause all the places are taken unless someone drops out then thats a new story + Now this new guy confesses to me saying he wants to go out with me!!!) HELP! What on earth am i suppose to do? The New guy is very friendly but I dont like him in that way!!!+My crush is avoiding me...I have no chance in talking to him cause we're not in the same class...he has stopped showing up in the cafe at break, getting on the bus home and worse of all I haven't seen him in DAYS! Help!
2006-10-10 08:51:29 · 32 answers · asked by saiyuki c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The point is that you don't like the one that you don't like the one that is interested in you and the new guy you want is avoiding you! girl, you have to settle down and spell out what you want so that you don't end up loosing out at both ends.
2006-10-10 08:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty simple; the guy you have a crush on is avoiding you, so leave him alone. If you keep looking for him or trying to run into him, he'll just think you're a little psycho stalker. There's a guy that does like you; it won't kill you to go out with him just to see what he's like on a date. If you don't click, then be kind about letting him know.
(If this is what you call a ruined life, print your question, tuck it away somewhere, and remind yourself to come back to it in five or ten years. You'll probably wish this was the worst problem you had!)
2006-10-10 08:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont u try getting to know the new guy? he might be really nice and once u know him 4 who he is might even get a crush on him! Its hard having a crush on some1 when they dont feel the same... it sounds like its his loss anyway.
If u do give this new guy a chance and it turns out u dont like him in that way, at least you will have made a new friend.
Show this guy who u have a crush on that u dont give a damn and show him u dont like him anymore... u never know he might start to do the chasing....
good luck and remember boys arent everything; try to enjoy yourself and just have fun, he'll soon start wondering what he's missing out on!
2006-10-10 08:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by sad_but_pretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be ok. Tell the guy who likes you but who you don't like, that you think he is nice but you do not see the two of you ever being together. Try talking to your crush after school or ask his friends what is going on. even if he doesn't want to go out with you, you'll be ok there are plenty of other guys. It will sting for a while but you eventually get over it.
2006-10-10 08:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him! Hang out where he hangs out! Ask him if he would like to study together sometime! Get him as a tutor! Be inventive and original, lol. You are a girl; you can up with something where he would spend time with you. Girls do this stuff to me all the time, and I only figure out what they are doing afterward. Anyway, your life is not ruined!! It's just a guy. One guy. One guy out of millions and millions. This is not the only guy in your life that you will come to love, and other loves will turn out much better if this one goes bad. Trust me! But good luck getting him back! Use your head...
2006-10-10 08:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath. Be yourself too. Don't sign up for a club unless you want to be in it. I am sure you can get this guys number and call one day and just talk to him. Sounds crazy but it really works. For the other guy, just tell him the truth. Most people think of you more you do tell them directly.
2006-10-10 08:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by cjlambert05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun' if your crush is avoiding you then he probably does not want to go out with you.If you don't like this New guy don't go out with him. Go talk to your crush tell him that it hurts when he avoids you but stay away from the subject of dating or your gonna scare him more. Your life is hardly ruined so go find a different guy who is good to you and start living. Its never worth it to chase after guys.
2006-10-10 08:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he isn't pursuing you (which is the guy's job) then leave him alone. you will still like him, but at least you will no longer be confused and stressed out. we all want that person who we like to like us back, however it doesn't always happen that way. you can either keep dwelling off of him, or enjoy your life. as far as the guy that likes you, if you don't like him the same way, you're not under any obligation to act like you do. just be friendly, (or better yet, if you don't like him even as a friend), casually act distant toward him, and he'll get the message. enjoy your club and have fun in life!
2006-10-10 08:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by Infinite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him nicely. Tell him that u rn't interested in him that way and u wud love to just remain friends.......tell him that u r interested in some1 else.....Just tell it to him in a letter and say 'sorry' even if u rn't cos it might hurt his feelings so we have to tell him gently. Y's ur crush avoiding u? that's the part i don't get...just talk to ur crush about this new guy if that's the problem. When u r brave enough then u cud ask him out if u really liked him. GOod LUcK!!!!
2006-10-10 08:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the other guy that you are not interested and stop and take a deep breath you will see the guy again and find out if you have any of the same subjects and ask him for some help or to just study together (ask his friends what classes he has)
2006-10-10 08:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by montana_infantry_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋