I'm a teen and like this boy who has no idea I exist!!! what are some good way to make him notice me and if it dosent work should I ask him on a date and if he kisses me what do I do!!!! This is new to me
2006-10-10 08:20:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO NO NO..THE WORST THING FOR U TO DO IS TO GET ALL EXCITED....IF HE DOESNT NOTICE U MAKE HIM NOTICE U BY DRESSING PRETTIER OR TALKN TO HIM LITTLE BY LITTLE....AFTER!! THAT GET SOMONE TO ASK HIM IF HE LIKES U IF HE SAYS "SHES OK" OR "SHES NICE" THEN HE DOESNT LIKE U!!!
2006-10-10 08:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by BeautyQueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my past experience the more you try to impress someone the ugly it turns out in the end.
I think you should let things go by themselves.
My guess you are both still in school. Find out what his interests are. Maybe between them you will find something you like also. And that could be a start. But don't try to like something only beacuse he likes it. In the end you'll get to hate it.
Who knows?! There's a small chance that he could be the one. But if he isn't, don't make such a big deal out of it.
Life it's beautiful. And it's just starting. Be happy. You get up every morning.
(i smile now when i remember a talk with a boy. years ago. i said to him "i hate it 'couse i tremble when i'm with you" and he was like "you little fool. :) you'll realise later how beautiful that feeling is. Oh. And how you will regret later that you can't feel that way anymore". :) how right he was... :) so... ENJOY feelings while you have them. Otherwise you will be miserable later. In a nonending search. For something ... you can only remember it exists. But you're not sure anymore)
2006-10-10 15:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if the "get him to notice me" thing is the right approach. If you want to give that a try maybe just look for some opportunities to talk to him. See how things go from there.
OR
Yes, you can ask him out. He might just say yes! And if he says no, don't be discouraged. Dating can be rough sometimes but there are always new people to choose from. Sooner or later EVERYBODY gets the answer they are looking for. Also, it can be lousy to look back and wonder "what if". Better to take your shot and know for sure!
Oh and if he kisses you? Well, I think you'll figure it out. ;-)
2006-10-10 15:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem as though you are a younger teen. Why not wait a few years until you develop better ideas than asking a bunch of folks that you do not know what YOU should do. When the time comes, you'll know.
2006-10-10 15:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok-- when u walk by him say hi. then after a couple days see what his reaction is, if its good then ask him out. if its bad just have little conversations with him every now and then. if u do go on a date with him and he kisses u u might freak out but dont worry thats TOTALLY normal. just while ur still on the date try to stay as calm as possible even if in ur head ur thinkg O MY GOSH.
2006-10-10 15:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he doesnt no you exist asking him on a date or thinking about what to d when he kisses you is a long way off.i think you should find out if he is on a sports team or find out what class he is in so you can ask him how somethign went. therefore striking up a convo adn therefore him noticing you.
2006-10-10 15:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit next to him in class or you could complement him on something or ask him to help you on a problem in math or something. if he notices you, you can start by asking him to sit or hang with you at lunch. if things looks good from there, ask him and a couple of friends to do a group date so then there's no pressure to kiss or anything
2006-10-10 15:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by Chickengoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore your raging hormones and concentrate on school! Find a career path that you're interested in and work toward earning an education that will take you to that place. Save your heart for the boys later in life!
2006-10-10 15:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a teen guy, and if there was a girl that I didn't know, and she asked asked me out, unless she was like goth, I'd probably say yes and see is she's cool. If she was, then sweet. Go for it. You won't know unless you try.
2006-10-10 15:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow. Don't try to push yourself to have this boy notice you. You are still young, trust me, you are going to come across plenty of other boys that will notice you, and you will also come across many of boys that wont notice you.
2006-10-10 15:24:44 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_truth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur a normal teen sweetness , you can start by getting closer to him ? and making sure he see you , and than a smile would help
welcome to puppy love have fun ok but listin dont let it take up all your time ok its not the boy your going to marrie and have kids with .
2006-10-10 15:25:10 · answer #11 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋