I wanted to know is having a one noight stand a bad thing IF your single?
2006-10-10 08:17:02 · 10 answers · asked by the real deal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Luv,
There is NOTHING wrong with "1-nite-stands" when you are single. All of it depends on each individual's personnal views on the subject of sex, relationships, and the like.
Some will view 1-N-S's as being a "s-l-u-t" or something in that vein, but then again, why wouldn't it be OK for us women to do so, since men seem to revel in the same act? Why is it OK for guys to "score" on these 1-N-S's but when a woman wants to do it, we are considered cheap, wh*re-ish, and nymphomaniacs?
So I wouldn't be concerned with other people's viewpoints on this. If you are single then you should do whatever makes you feel good, as long as you don't feel guilt or regret afterwards. The main facotr in all of this is YOU and how YOU feel about such things.
Personnaly, 1-N-S's for me were regular before I met the man who is now my hubby! Since then, I must admit I have never felt the need for other men in my private life! But I guess I am lucky that way?
Good luck, luv!
2006-10-10 08:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by ButtahChick (ButterChick) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, what the heck is wrong with it. Just pick a guy whos mature enough not to tell everybody about it and run your name through the mud.
2006-10-10 15:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on peoples point of view but for me it won't be a bad thing
2006-10-10 15:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is interesting that no one has ever seen the start of a relationship.
2006-10-10 15:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No just dont get involed with the guy or gurl
2006-10-10 15:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by Adam K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Pub Buddy out for a night...then tell me what you think..
2006-10-10 15:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by Pub Buddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet me later and we can find out together.
2006-10-10 15:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not. Provided that you are smart and careful about it, it can actually be a VERY GOOD thing. :-)
2006-10-10 15:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not, its the whole point of being single
2006-10-10 15:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope you are not hurting anyone
2006-10-10 15:19:49 · answer #10 · answered by Alissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋