My son is a dirty homosexual...I want him OUT! (legal help)?

Question

My son is a disgrace.

He is sixteen years old.

He is a homosexual or claims to be.

He has premarital sex with men.

He is disrespectful of Jesus, our heavenly saviour.

Even though he is a good boy, getting good grades and such, I refuse to have a homosexual living in my home.

How can I legally kick him out of my house?

He has a job and can support himself.

Don't judge...just answer the question. Helpful answers would be appreciated!

I do love my son but will not partake in his sins agains God.

Answer 1

I'm just going to answer the damn questions...regardless of my beliefs.

If your son wants to move out you can emancipate him.

You cannot legally kick him out but you could give him to a foster family.

It's sad you would think to do this but there's your answers.

Answer 2

You start wiht my son is a disgrace
and finish
by even though he is a good boy, getting good grade snd such
Lady get a grip on reality
you son is asking you for guidance so what he is gay
talk to him don't insult him, help him understand life
do a parent.I am not saying for you to agree or accept his chooses but listen and pray that God will protect him
he will have anought of a bad time trying to deal with the world he certainly don't need the person that was suppose to love him the most reject him
And no their is no legal way for you to kick him out
you probably best kicking yourself out

Answer 3

Hormones made him Homosexual. He's very lucky to be alive in this era, so he doesn't have to spend the rest of his life hiding the fact. Since you gave birth to him and are responsible for his life, you might want to do the minimum parenting required of you until he is 18. Maybe this is a test sent to you from God, and God is hoping you will influence his life in a positive way for these next 2 years when he's still a minor.
Later, if you wonder about your own guilt or responsibility, you will at least know you did your duty as a parent LEGALLY.
One legal action you can take now, that might put your mind at ease is to draft a will cutting him out of any inheritance. This would express your duty to God in a real way, and would not involve any emotions or condemnations. If he is your only child, you MUST draft a will if you want to disinherit him.

Your son is a child of God, who created him exactly as He wanted him to be.

Answer 4

I have a hard time believing that this post is legit, because this is absolutely absurd! I do hope that this is a (sick) joke.

But, on the off chance that you would throw your child onto the streets because of who he is... here are my two cents.

If you are for real, clearly you did a WONDERFUL job raising him, lady. If you feel so strong about premarital sex and the Christian faith, you did a terrible job of instilling these values in your child--could it be because you don't exemplify these values yourself? How is your son able to have promiscuous sex? Don't you know where he is, who he's with and what he's up to when he's not under your direct supervision? If he's putting himself in risky situations, why aren't you putting your foot down and grounding him?!?!

Your child did not ask to be gay, much less CHOOSE to be gay. And no child would choose to have you as a mother. Have you explored the option that maybe he's rebelling against you (meaning it's all talk)? Have you taken the time to talk to your son to figure out what's going on in his life? Have you stopped to think about how hard it is for a teen to be different (whether it be sexual orientation, disability, race, etc)?

Your statements are not of a caring mother.

Answer 5

I would have to agree with momma2min. You should get an award for mother of the year. You don't know about unconditional love? If you know Jesus, then you should know about His unconditional love for you. Are you without sin that you can freely judge others?

Have you ever committed a sin? Do you want God to kick you out of Heaven because of it?

Try hugging him and telling him that you love him more than anything else in the world and no matter what his sexual orientation is let him know that you will always be there for him and he has a safe haven at home.

Then pray for him. Pray that he will be able to get away from his deviant lifestyle someday.

Shun him now and you will more than likely end up paying for it someday. You will be old and alone and will want him to come visit you or not put you in a home.

Shame on you for even asking such a ridiculous question.

I will pray for the both of you.

Answer 6

First off, you cannot legally kick your underage child out of your house. Second, you need to read the teachings of Jesus Christ because you have missed something. We are not supposed to judge others, that is God's job. I will pray for you that you will become the loving mother you should be and support him in this time of need. He might just be telling you this stuff to get you worked up. Also, he is a teenager and teens get very confused about their sexuality.

Answer 7

Well so much for not judging...While I certainly don't agree with your tack you didn't really ask for an opinion. I would think you would need to consult an attorney specializing in family law or your local DHS or Child Services (anonymously as they'll likely have an opinion about your course of action and it won't be withheld...). I left home at 16 (by choice) and was emancipated. I'm sure your situation is painful. I would encourage you to think/feel/pray about your "solution" and recall that Jesus said to the assembled clergy and lay people about to stone ye olde woman.."let he who is without sin cast the first stone". What sins are present in your life? What are Jesus' only two commandments to us? Love the Lord God and love your neighbor as yourself... Do unto others...

Answer 8

you ask us not to judge, but you have done the judging for your self if you are a real christian then you should know that any sin whether it be stealing, lying, homosexuality, killing, etc, is a sin no matter how you look at it and the bible also says that GOD loves us all no matter what and he will forgive all no matter what the thing you should be doing and praying very hard and leave it in GOD's hands this shouldn't be a decision you should make and throw your child out in the street did GOD throw you away? no and he loves you just like he loves your son, he doesn't approve of his lifestyle, but as long as there is prayer there is still hope for your son to turn around and who better to help guide him is his christian mother who christian stands for Christ like....i know you dislike what is going on but you really need to pray very hard about this and seek GOD's guidance instead of humans the bible says follow GOD not man......good luck and i will keep you in my prayers

Answer 9

I disagree with EVERYTHIG you said in your message, so I won't bother to tell you that there is nothing wrong with homosexuality-you won't bother to listen. So, here's what I have to say to you...

You have five kids-put them first and keep your personal beliefs to yourself. Your son is old enough now to decide his own sexuality and there is nothing you can do to change that. If you can not accept him, then at least tolerate him for the next two years and then he will be old enough (legally, at least) to make his own decisions.

It is a same you feel this way, though. You will loose any future relationship with your son if you continue down this path and sentence him to a much harder life, since he will have have no choice but to fend for himself at the tender age of 18 (that is, if you follow the law). I wish him the best of luck and I hope you will change your mind and do what is best for him. we don't have to agree with everyting our kids do, but we should support them. Plus, he is clearly a good kid! I beg you to rethink your position. Talk with other parents going through the same thing (there are groups all over the country and they are easy to find). Standing by him is the best thing for both of you. Find a way to make it work.

Answer 10

Let's respond to all your statements in order.
1. My son is a disgrace.
A. You raised him, so who is the real disgrace?

2. He is sixteen years old.
A. And as such a minor, you are responsible for him until he is 18

3. He is a homosexual or claims to be.
A. Don't you know that this is because you are a bad mother?

4. He has premarital sex with men.
A. No, he doesn't. He can't marry other men, so he can't have "premarital" sex with them either.

5. He is disrespectful of Jesus, our heavenly saviour.
A. Funny, I missed the scripture in the bible that kicking your kids to the curb because you disagree with their choices is Christian and respectful to Jesus. My "heavenly saviour" loves everyone, yes even homosexuals and welcomes them into his loving arms.

6. Even though he is a good boy, getting good grades and such, I refuse to have a homosexual living in my home.
A. Why, are you sleeping with him? You ever think that he may be telling you this stuff to get you p*ssed off? Because its working and he IS 16.

7. How can I legally kick him out of my house?
A. I don't believe you can "kick" him out. But you could find a safe, supportive environment, like a relative, sign over temporary custody to them, and then pay child support until your son is 18.

8. He has a job and can support himself.
A. No he doesn't, he is a child and is not ready to "support" himself. As a minor, he can't get credit, he can't enroll in school, he can't cross state lines, so No he can't support himself either

All your son wants and needs is the love and support of his family, especially his mother and lady, you brought this boy into this world, you need to take care of him at least until he is 18.

Answer 11

Legally, you can't kick him out until he is 18. However, what kind of christian calls her son names like dirty, and filthy? YOU should be ashamed of your attitude. You need to grow up, and get your nose out of the preacher's butthole, and look around you. Your son has good grades, and a job, yet you are still not happy with him. And I'll bet you make him give you most of the money he earns, too. And how is he disrespectful of Jesus? Does he stand in the church and curse his name, or does he simply love people you don't approve of? I'll bet your husband has mistress, since you are such a prude, or has he already divorced you? The only disgrace in your house is YOU!!!!!!!!