2006-10-10 07:33:07 · 18 answers · asked by pixie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
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2006-10-10 07:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course this is normal! Have you looked at divorce rates right now? Before you decide to go through with a big step like this, you need to think long and hard about your decision. Never jump right in. Make sure you are with the person for the right reasons. I suggest talking to a counselor or minister (not for religious purposes) because they are experts in the field and they can ask questions that you need to answer.
2006-10-10 14:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal. If you feel that the man you are with is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, to honour and to love through sickness and in health, through all troubles that might come upon you, you can get married but maybe you do feel this way because this is a big decision and it will be a pivitol decision that will change your life forever. I suggest you speak with your local pastor or even go to your boy friend. May Jesus Bless you two.
2006-10-10 14:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by Adam Chambers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! I was terrified, it was such a huge step and we hadn't even had an argument yet. With everyone talking about the divorce rate and all, it got very confusing, but we both talked about it (he was nervous too!) and decided that this was something we both REALLY wanted to do and to hell with all the naysayers. We're dedicated to each other and each other's happiness.
And by the way... that was 10 years ago and we're still happy as newlyweds.
2006-10-10 14:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not only normal, but most of us stay scared for years after the ceremony.
2006-10-10 14:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by Buffy Summers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.. it is totally normal. when i was just thinking about getting married i was scared to death. i kept thinking when i am married i am going to wake up to this man everyday,see him every night, and be spending the rest of my life with him, etc....etc...... but now we have been married for 11 years and i still love him and am glad i get to wake up to him every morning and fall asleep with him every night. take a breath and relax it is normal and you will look back and be glad like i do every day i see my husband.
2006-10-10 14:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by atthean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is perfectly normal, everybody goes through it. It comes with the territory, b/c you have never ventured towards this time in your life until now and it causes some anxieties and worries. Everything is going to be alright
2006-10-10 20:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by Joe P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! It's not normal! It's a bad sign! You should be excited and happy but not scared.
2006-10-10 14:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by Hank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Competely normal, it is called Wedding day jitters or Cold feet, I usually goes away before the Happy Day. Congratulations and good luck
2006-10-10 14:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Marriage is a life long commitment, it's normal to be nervous before making such a huge decision.
2006-10-10 14:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋